Love or hate:which of the two might the reason why a guy ignoring me?

I heard that from girls before too. Its just the way relationships go. Best really is to just let go of him. The more you chase the more he runs away.

I like to see relationships as each participant having a certain value to each other. In this case he does not value you at all. And by chasing him , you are further lowering your value to him.

Go out and enjoy yourself. Be with friends. Show that you don't need him. Do not put him on a pedestal. You are doing that by trying hard to get him back.

A common mistake we do is put the person we love high up on a pedestal by treating them so well and then we wonder why we can't reach them anymore.

Stop harassing him (probably the way he feels) and see if he misses you enough to contact you. More than likely you have passed the point of no return, from your question, but prayerful consideration, with God as your mentor, may help you avoid this kind of problem in the future. Prayer can also give God the authority to redeem this relationship, if it was His plan in the first place.
God gives us authority to make mistakes, and He respects our decisions. He does arrange things so there is one "right" person for you at any given time, but both of you must cooperate for a healthy, deeply intimate relationship to develop. If one person screws up, God will adapt and arrange another meeting at a later time, with someone else. If you seek intimacy with God, He will draw you close to Himself. If you are drawing close to God, you are automatically drawing close to the person he wants you to be with. Like the three points of a triangle, God is one, you are another and the other person is the third. The closer you get to God, the smaller the triangle gets. The further you get from God, the bigger. At any given time, you can change your course and either draw closer to, or farther from the other person, or God. However, if you are headed toward God, the triangle will be shrinking and you will be closer to the other person.

get over it, if someone does not reply then take the hint.I don't want to sound cruel but just delete everything about him he's obviously not worth it if he just ignored u. Play him at his own game, if he thinks you have forgotton about him he may get in contact with you again. but don't build ur hopes up on that!

I'm sorry to say girl, but I think the question that you need to be really asking . Is "what can you do?"

If this guy, has changed his number, does not contact you and will not return your attempts to contact you . then how much more of a SIGN do you need? He is clearly not interested in you and its time to move on.

I think if there is anything that you can do, then its just leave this guy alone. Stop contacting him and kind of do your best to move on and forget him.

Seriously.

I mean I say that with the most love, because you deserve a guy who will respond to you and treat you really well. Just think, that this guy has given you the opportunity to find someone else amazing. And now you know how "not" to be treated.

All the best gal

Hot Alpha Female

I know this is hard to do, but if he is ignoring you, stop trying to get in touch. Do your best to move on, if he gets in touch, that's great, but leave it up to him now. As for love or hate, I don't know, but if he is behaving this way it doesn't matter.