How do you get over a guy?

the best way is to get over yourself first.

Pray about it, and grieve the losses and pain. Don't just cry, which is superficial. Grieve, which lets God take the pain that is in the depths of your soul and expel it from your body, using your tears to irrigate the wound as He cleanses it and sutures it shut. Without deep grief, you will end up superficially mourning it for the rest of your life. With deep grief, you go deep for a few minutes, or hours, depending on how big, and deep the wound is. Like any surgery, though, grief takes a little while to happen, but when it is done, it is done.

To hang out with friends and family. To do things you enjoy and to pray for peace

Date date date date, but don't commit.

Think about his negatives. That works for me. If not then just think love is a 2 way street, not a one way.

keep yourself busy with something else. go to the gym, get extra shifts at work (hey, it's effective), do some activity to release all your frustrations (kickboxing, wall climbing.), anything to prevent you from thinking about him.

but let's be honest. by the end of the day, he'll come crawling back into your head once again.
i know. what a bastard.

that's why you need to go find yourself a "rebound guy". lol. just someone you find attractive and is really nice. you don't have to necessarily BE with this guy, but just so you can say for yourself that "this guy is waaay better - and hotter - than my ex."

like what kendysheperd had said though, DON'T CALL HIM. EVER. not until you've recovered and moved on. if you want to get over him, you have to learn to MOVE ON and accept the fact that he's gone.

keep reminding yourself that HE wasn't worth it. YOU deserve someone BETTER. don't waste your time dwelling over him. it was HIS LOSS, not yours.

When my boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me I bought new shoes and sunglasses and went the extra mile to look great! After we broke up, I couldn't eat or even think straight. I avoided going to class because I knew I would have to see him there. whenever some one even mentioned his name I got sick to my stomach and one day I cried to hard I puked.I lost 10 lbs, so at least I looked thin when I cried a ton! LOL.
But my sister was there for me and gave me great advice. We skipped school together and went tanning and made fun of him! Laughter cures all. Talk to your friends, but DO NOT CALL HIM! that is the kiss of death is you keep calling the guy. he'll think you psycho. trust me.

Don't rush into a relationship! Masturbation is you best friend now! JK, well, it honestly made me feel a lot better because I felt like I needed no one in my life. I could get everything I needed from myself and love from my friends.

In all, it took me at least 1 to 2 months to get over him, but I now see I am soo much better off!


Hopefully I was at least a little helpful.