A couple of years ago I met this guy and we were really into each other and dated for a couple of weeks. He called me from vacation, we hooked up, came over a couple of times, he made me a CD. he was REALLY into me.
A month passed and I moved away. I broke it off with him, but he said he wants to remain friends. Whenever I would visit, we would hook up. and casually dated.
But almost 2 years later, I am back for good, and we see each other, hook up and hang out. but its just not the same. he is distant, definitely doesn't seem as into me as it was before, and almost treats me like a booty call. Except, he always invites me to concerts, and shows. and very recently I invited him to be my date for a wedding. and he said yes.
But I want it to get back to the way it was when we were into each other. He was GREAT then. I'd like to get him back the way he was then.
But I can't tell if he's being distant because he's not into me and doesn't care anymore. or he IS and is just being careful?
What do you think? I really, really care about him.
If I were him, I would act this way just not to be disappointed "again" if he was before. I would just say to myself that the girl does not really care about me so I would "show my care" less.
I think he still has feeling for you since he invites you to shows and all and furthermore, he accepted to be your date for a wedding which means he is certainly not interested in some others girls (I suppose).
Well I would just tell you to show him you care if you really do care for him because people tend to give up really easily when it concerns love.
The biggest piece of advice I could give you is that you need to communicate how you feel. If I were in his situation, I would be a little confused too, as to what you wanted and whether or not you will break it off again. Since its not about breaking up, it'd be easier to write him an email and let him know that you have feelings for him. Once he responds, and you get a feel for what he's thinking, maybe you can ask him out (officially) ie if he doesn't do it himself.
If I were in his situation, I'd honestly be a little happy about it. But you should make it clear that you want him as more than just a hook up and if he is not up for that, then you guys should go your own ways before anyone gets hurt.
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