I really like this guy and he likes me and he told me so long ago. I however didn't respond. We became friends with benefits, I guess because for me it's easier to express my feelings in physical thing than emotional. I feel he's giving me hints that he wants a relationship, but only if I make the first move. I just can't open up to him how I feel about him. I'm shy at it and I guess he's confused too about what I feel for him. And I don't wanna be weird, like just tell him that out of nowhere. He asked me out last week and I said ok well then he said he'll call me next day, but he didn't. I didn't contact him either. It's been almost week. But I guess it's a time for me to make a move. When next time I hang out with him, I wanna start this nice flowing conversation where I could talk out that I really like him and I want more. Any advices how should I start it and what should I say? I just wanna make it good.
Ok I would start out making it clear you are interested in starting something more than a friends for benefits. Be careful with this because it's easy to get sucked into a friends with benefits convenient relationship. This is one where you two sleep together but you don't date. The next thing you know you are feeling confused and he is happy because he has a girlfriend without the label. And if she gets jealous or expects things he can remind her they are not dating. I hope he reciprocates your feelings and you two start dating. Good luck.
We already slept together, but we were too busy to start a relationship, I was focused on my school and I told him, when he'd ask to meet but I'd be studying. And he owns 3 businesses. So we'd hang out maybe once a month or 2 months. He really wants to meet my parents but I know that my mom wouldn't approve him as my boyfriend (he's 24 & I'm 18) &I don't want him to know that. Id date him without him meeting her but I guess he thinks he first has to get to know my family. - A month ago
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24 is not a bad age. You are over 18. I think it's admirable that he wants to meet your parent's. I would talk to your mom and let her know about him and see what she thinks about him. Parent's are actually quite understanding. - A month ago
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Yeah but that's another problem, I can't talk to her about this either, because I know how she'll respond, she'll say I need to concentrate on my studies not guys & she has no idea her daughter is not virgin anymore lol. But I feel I need to date him for a while and to see how it all goes before introducing him to my parents. Because why would a guy be interested in that if he didn't want a relationship and was only after sex? He knows I'm nice girl and he wanted to me to meet his friends. - A month ago
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Do you live under her roof or are you going to college? What's the worst thing that could happen if she knew you were dating him? - A month ago
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Nothing, she'd have that cold attitude towards me, since I have never had a boyfriend. But when I try to talk to her, like oh I need a boyfriend now, then she starts, first finish ur education and then think of guys. Am I not healthy? Or should I turn lesbian? And yeah we live under the same roof. They're both pain the asses for me now... :/ - A month ago
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Well seeing as you are 18 and an adult you can make your own decisions. She may not like it at first but she will get over it. The thing is, she can't protect you your whole life. You need to learn to make your own decisions and live your life. If you see your grades are suffering you will have to change that. But it's time to grow up and let her know that she will not always be there to save you or tell you what's best. - A month ago
I feel like I'm in a parallel universe, that exact same thing happened with my FWB guy on Sunday and I haven't heard from him since. I have tried to call but no answer. I am like you I have difficulty expressing my feelings. I wish I had some good advice to offer, but I don't I just wanted you to know your not alone.
Yeah I guess that friends with benefits thing is really wrong. Because why would you have sex with someone you don't like? so it's obvious you like another person. And ah hopefully guys would understand that. I mean I wouldn't need that relationship status if I knew he wasnt interested in other women or that he is not playing with me. - A month ago
You should start out with "so hove you ever thought about what we would be like if we were together?" Or just something to get him picturing it. Obviously you said he likes you and you like him to so there is less pressure on you because if he really does like you, the conversation might start off weird but then it will flow easily. I hope I helped!
Well he already asked me out when he offered me if I wanted to go out. But since that he hasn't called me and I don't know where we stand now. So I just wanna ask him if I'm already his girlfriend or no, but I don't wanna pop this question straight out, just go around with clues and hints. - A month ago
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I think I use situations to start conversations...
If I'm approaching a female, I'd start by introducing myself, and following up with a compliment of why I had to introduce my self.
How do they typically respond?
If she is interested, she would ask questions, or make small talk while giving off some type of body language.
If she is not interested, she listens to whatever I say, and tells me something like she really into someone right now, but she appreciates the approach.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: A month ago
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