long story short, he told me that he loves me, he has always loved me, and will always love me. I was in shock so I was like.what? really?! .and he was like yeah, a different kind of love. So I was like.sisterly love? and he said no that would be incest.
So if he doesn't love me love me, and he doesn't love me like a sister.what is he trying to say?!?! I'm soooo confused! thx
it sounds like this is the kind of friendship that he doesn't want to let go of. But he would like to date you, however if you guys ever had a really bad breakup, he would blame himself. And if you two were to ever not be friends after, he would be lost. So he is conflicted and he thinks about it a lot.
If a person approaches someone their attracted to, and then gets to know them and they hang out. Then time goes by and they become best friends. And the person then develops a feeling of love in a friendly way for their best friend even though they might have been attracted to them first place. Then they get an epiphany like "Whoa, maybe I am really in love? But their my best friend? Am I really in love, or just have love for them? And they try to work though their emotions but really they are somewhat tied together. So it's hard to distinguish which feeling is which, or which is most felt.
I once said that to a gir; that I loved her and always would, because I don't know I guess I thought we would be perfect it turns out it didn't work, but I don't know what kind of love it was, the guy who said that to you does love you and doesn't know how to tell you. if you love him tell him because I lost my true love because I waited to long to tell her.
Thank you for clearing that up! Do you think it is out of place for a girl to tell a guy how she feels? My parents taught me all about how the guy should make the first move and be the one to pursue and such....I don't want to scare the guy away! I saw him today and I told him how I felt even though I know he already knew. He must think I'm a desperate loser! - A month ago
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