Me with this guy hit it off pretty much a lot in the party. He got my phone number & my friend was the one to hook us up. But I didn't really like him and didn't show any interest to him at all, because I was all serious and into studies and he knew I had strict mom and he seemed a guy who just does drugs. I just treated him like nothing important and didn't want dating. Although we both shared similar interests like in music. I wouldn't answer his calls mostly and we hanged out in his house for 3 times alone. But still I considered him like a friend and made out with him. He told me he likes that I'm different from other girls. He stopped smoking weed. He posted pics of us on facebook & I told him to take them off, then he became distant and acted like he's not into me. My friend started blaming me for being so mean to him & I found out she wanted to hook him up with someone else. But I just lately found that out since it was about 8 months ago. I don't know who it was, but he didn't stay with that person. But my friend would talk with him on the phone cause she dated his cousin. For a while he stopped calling me and I didn't call him. My friend lost contact with him too & she said she didn't like him because of his ugly personality. Then he started calling me again and leave voice messages when I wouldn't pick up. He called me on christmas, I missed that & called back later, he said he was alone during christmas & just wanted to say hi. He called me on all holidays during winter to see how I'm doing and how's my family. I decided to hang out with him after a while. We were in private, and he told me he likes me. We started making out and both got hot. He complimented me a lot. Then he called me on valentine's day to ask me out I think, but I didn't pick up and called him back 2 days later, acting like nothing was going on. He seemed cool and said he'll call me later, but he didn't for a month. Then he started asking if I have boyfriend or if he's at home. I've met his friends and he talks a lot to them about me. He called me once his girl when we were playing around and told me he wished to have little family with me. But now when I started calling him, he's not always picking up the phone and recently I called him and he asked me out, he said he'll call another day, but he didn't. Did he have feelings for me? If he did, did they die? Or is there possibility I could spark them up in him back somehow?
Update: Basically why would a guy come back to chase the girl if she brought him down and treated him like a crap?
3 months ago
Maybe he's confused and testing you to see if you are really interested. To be honest, it sounds like you gave this the guy the run around. If you want to be with him then just tell him how you really feel, pick up the phone and talk to him. I was in a similar situation and now the guy is with someone else, I regret not taking that chance.
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Then just forget about him, if he really cares then he'll come back. Just don't chase him now cause that's what he probably wants and no girl should ever chase a guy. I hope this helps - 3 months ago
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