when you post a question and instead of these certain people just simply answering the question, give an honest opinion, or share there thoughts like most of do.they find the need to correct you or tell you something they don't like about the way you worded the ?
This is the US of A and we all have the right to our opinions of course but is it necessary to Correct people, I think that is rude and pointless. If I wanted to be told how to word my sentences I'd move to the Middle East or Korea. To those few know it alls get over yourself.
Update: Worded.does not mean the way you spelled the word. I am not talking about grammar.
I am talking about the fact that some people always have to be Right!
As for the Middle East/Korea comment it had nothing to do with race.
2 months ago
I don't get irritated so much. It is only their opinion after all, but I do get concerned if their opinion goes over my moral ground.
Freedom of opinion is good, but not when that opinion hurts others or themselves. for example if someone would say: "I like killing people", people then respond in anger, but they simply "get away with it" by saying "it is only my opinion", you can't just say what you like whenever and wherever you like, it has to be appropriate to the time, place and event. There is a wrong and a right but people aren't always aware of it, so sometimes they need reminding. You also get destructive and constructive criticism, depends on how you take it. But overall I agree with you.
Well, if the wording of the question is so poor that it gets in the way of the answer, then it is acceptable for the answerer to try to get you to provide clarity.
You have to make your questions understandable, and clear, or getting an answer is very difficult. You know that the people tried to answer, and perhaps would have if you had worded the question correctly. Just think, all those answers that simply told you to fix the question could have been giving you advice. Be thankful for those of us that answer, and try to remember that we are all in this together, If we don't like your questions, then ours are probably worded "correctly" in our brains. I answer you, you answer me.
It is a typical slam of the ME and Korea to say that they don't have freedom of speech, but keep this in mind - Our right as answerers to speak our minds should not be overridden by your freedom to ask questions in the first place.
I provide a decent answer to as many questions as I can, but really, if I can't understand what you are asking, then I feel it is my civic duty to let you know that your English is terrible enough to interfere with comprehension.
Well I will agree that it is pointless for someone to reply with no advice other than grammatical corrections. I will say, though, I often am more annoyed with questions that don't really get specific at all and aren't clear enough to provide a realistic answer. If an answer is asking for more information or doesn't understand the question because of poor grammar than I can see the point. As for your comment about where you live and being told how to word your sentences. no matter where you go there will be someone who feels inclined to correct you. Personally, I find it annoying when my friends correct me, however, I choose to just make sure I don't give them the opportunity to correct me rather than getting mad about it. I don't really see it as rude in general if someone corrects you, depending on the wording and situation, but I know it upsets some people. People make mistakes and some people just want to let you know they don't get what you are asking. if they do it in a rude manner than just give it the down arrow and shrug it off.
"As for the Middle East/Korea comment it had nothing to do with race."
No one was taking about race. It was the fact you can generalize a whole country that you know nothing about. People are too quick to assume and make ignorant comments! P.S. There is a NORTH and SOUTH Korea that both have very different political views.
Your comment is correct, except the bit about the middle east. That's a broad and ignorant statement to make. Also, it can't hurt to use spell check and read over your questions or responses before submitting them. Reading threw incorrect grammar and misspelled words can be distracting, BUT I agree, it's rude to correct someones questions. For example your whole last sentence is messed up. It should say, TO THOSE FEW WHO KNOW IT ALL, GET OVER YOURSELF. Hope that helps : )
Well this isn't a U.S.A. only site, there are members from everywhere. And if people are correcting you it's probably because your lack of grammar makes it hard to understand what you are saying. I don't think there are a lot of people hanging around for the purpose of correcting grammar.
I was talking about people like you and I wasn't just talking about myself I was talking about other people who post question and I read how people correct them. - 2 months ago
Answerer
Umm, okay, well no one has ever corrected my grammar. I think I generally write pretty well. I guess this could be a common occurrence for someone who doesn't. I don't know why you'd find it to be an issue. Poorly worded questions are hard to answer and bad grammar is often confusing. - 2 months ago
Question Asker
Honey re-read the question I wasn't talking about grammar. - 2 months ago
Answerer
All right, but your question had enough grammar problems that I just assumed that you were. And I guess now I'm doing the thing that you said bothered you. So sorry, and I'll drop it. - 2 months ago
I am gonna have to give GravyGirl some backing here. The way the question was worded I was taking it to primarily grammar. If you have an opinion on something than obviously it is your opinion or belief and it can't be "corrected" because it is not really wrong. Also she has a point about this site not being exclusive to the US. Really though, this is nothing for anyone to get mad about. - 2 months ago
Question Asker
This is what I am talking about wording... blah blah... I knew if I threw this out this I would get you people to jump on the band wagon. - 2 months ago
Grammar within a question is something critical to the way that it is read and answered. If anything, the correction of grammar is a problem on this site, not just people saying that you are stupid for asking a question. If you weren't asking about why people complain about grammar, what were you asking? Seriously, you can't be too offended by what people say in response to your question at all, they are contributing. - 2 months ago
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