This shy guy I had a crush on and was with a couple of times and would never reply back to my emails. But then I would see him out and he would always be looking at me from a distance. Anyways I saw him the other night when I was completely bombed which usually happens of course. I go over to say hi just so he knows that I'm not in anyway upset that he doesn't want to hang out. So were chatting and one of my guy friends comes up and pokes me in the back, I turn around to say hi and when I turn back to continue my conversation with shy guy and he says you better go talk to your boyfriend sarcastically and walks away. I didn't think that was very nice from someone who can't give someone a straight answer whether you like someone or not?
He's intimidated by you. This happened to me once, there was this girl I thought was the most beautiful thing on the planet, I couldn't keep my eyes off of her, but I was certain that she was out of my league so I never took the chance of asking her out. For whatever reason he doesn't think he's worth your time even though he is attracted to you, what happened with ur guy friend is a great example of this; he immediately ducks out because he doesn't think he can compete.
Well what am I suppose to do? I did email him a couple of days before saying that I've liked him for over a year and now its time to move on because life's to short waiting for someone to figure out what they want. Was that too harsh, maybe that's why he said what he did. - 5 months ago
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It was harsh but it was true. You can't wait for people for too long because life is not guaranteed. I would advise not going after this guy and moving on. You don't want a guy who is staring in the distance, you want the guy who will take the chance and ask you out because you know that he is interested in you by risking rejection to get to know you. - 5 months ago
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