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What is the most important personality trait you look for in a guy?

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field (Age:25 to 29)     When: More than a year ago
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What is the most important personality trait you look for in a guy?

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VirtualOrange
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VirtualOrange (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
Some combination of loyalty and honesty. I have no problem saying both since they both kind of go together.
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suigeneris
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suigeneris (Age:Under 18)      When: A month ago
The most important personality trait is that he treats others, himself, and me very well.
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Nut-Meg1453
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Nut-Meg1453 (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
Honesty and humor.
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Living-the-ADvenTURe
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Living-the-ADvenTURe (Age:Under 18)      When: 8 months ago
He has to have a sweet/nice personality, I like it when he flirts and teases me and for us to be able to laugh lots together and honesty. I find that a guy with a sweet/nice personality is the most attractive because his personality shines through in his face. As soon as I notice a great looking guy has more of an aggressive, cold, ignorant, arrogant or mean personality, he actually doesn't seem attractive to me any more.
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jjellybean
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jjellybean (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
His morals. I'm kinda old fashioned and he has to respect me. I'm a woman, one of the best things that walk this earth. All ya'll guys would be bored if it weren't for us and vice versa. I respect you, you respect me.
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Cotton-Candy-Summer
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Cotton-Candy-Summer (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
Sweet and courteous with a sense of humor who will push me around a bit, too. A little jerk in a guy shows that he's honest and true because he'll say what's on his mind no matter what his girlie thinks. But most of all, I need him to let me know that he's all about me, not a player.

however, dont' forget, love is blind!
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sunkist06
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sunkist06 (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
He has to be funny. I'm partially in love with Stephen Colbert and Bob Saget.
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roastedasian367
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roastedasian367 (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Honesty
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Stiny-In-Love
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Stiny-In-Love (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
I don't care about looks I only care that my guy really cares about me and doesn't get into to much trouble... He has to have respect for me and I will have respect for him because he respects me!! :)
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
It depends. Mainly girls look for honesty and humor.
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Girl96
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Girl96 (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Sense of Humor but sweet!
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toodie81
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toodie81 (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
Depend on the girl's experience. I thought I found the perfect guy, sweet, funny, honest, loving, caring, etc... I was for sure this is the one who will never break my heart. Wrong. When a guy is that perfect, he get confuse very easily and very easily being manipulate by others. Soon, everything else hold higher priority than you although he swear that you're the most important thing to him...

So now, I hate nice guys, at least with jerks I know how they are ahead of times.
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alpinestars-2002795 You know, some of us have things that are important to us as well. If you can't respect that, then how are you going to gain respect in return? Goes back to the old saying of, "You get what you give" you know? Just because he had passions, or things he was deeply interested in didn't mean he didn't "LOVE" you enough, or that he didn't care. It merely shows he has passions for you, and other things as well, at least he has a hobby. - A month ago
alpinestars-2002795 To finish my comment here. I know a lot of guys that are my friends, not just myself that are getting rather annoyed/tired of women just expecting them to drop everything for every second of everyday. You guys don't do it for us, so don't expect it from us. We'll give you all the attention we can, but we also have ambitions, things that are important to us; and if you truly cared for your partner, instead of being a stump on the log and having an attitude complex you'd join him. - A month ago
alpinestars-2002795 You wanna know the crazy part? If you did that instead of criticizing him for his ambitions, or passions you'd gat a lot further in life. Who knows, maybe he'll go somewhere with those ambitions, I'm sure you've seen your fair share of movies where a girl did that very thing and the guy became famous, and then what? Then how are you going to feel? Pretty silly huh? So instead become part of him, by that I mean the things he does, because his ambitions are him; his passions are a part of him. - A month ago

rosynante
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rosynante (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Confidence, sweetness and laid back - like Owen Wilson in every character he's played.
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pancake
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pancake (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
A sense of humor for sure!
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bgreek1
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bgreek1 (Age:36 to 45)      When: 3 months ago
hey I'm getting a big laugh.
the only thing that's missing is kissing a mans' ass.
if there were any truth to what some of the women have said.
it'd be easier to date.

but face the cold hard facts.
here's the simple math when it comes to women
woman+good-looking men+being rich*being a jerk*being good in bed/emotion=
bad relationships
which make women bitter towards men.
if there was any truth women would be happily married barefoot pregnant

case closed
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sanlove50
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sanlove50 (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Love
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