my whole life I've been well curvacious I was never really skinny and now that I've grown up and I'M more curves than fat I still don't feel comfortable in my own skin I hate my body still and even though a lot of guys hit on me I'm always denying them because I feel like I can't love anybody else unless I first love myself. Now I really like this guy and he likes me too but there is something that's keeping me from fully being open with him I'm so afraid of being hurt and having him hurt me that I keep trying to push him away and tell myself I'm not interested in him how do I change how do I build confidence and self esteem?
i do agree that you need to love urself first. & one way to build confidence is, when someone gives you a compliment, no matter who it is, take it & except it. you good also treat urself to little things, something special. & you good also give urself compliments because if you don't believe urself when you say it then you won't believe it when someone else does. I also think you should take the chance & be more open with the boy you like. not all at once, but gradually. the more open you become the more comfortable you will feel. good luck & hope I helped.
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