I haven't cheated yet, nor do I ever plan to. Yeah, I suppose some people would say "never say never," but. I don't feel like it'd really be in me to cheat.
1) I'm a pretty conservative guy, and I am Christian. Not to say that Christian's don't cheat (I know many who have done it repeatedly), but to me, I'd think that those two things would keep me fairly honest.
2) I feel like I'm a "by the book" kind of guy. Men aren't supposed to cheat (neither are women, but as we're talking about men.); we're not supposed to lie; and we admit when we find out we're wrong, and we take our consequences. I have a strong sense of right and wrong, and am pretty good about taking the consequences in stride.
3) If people want out, they're welcome to go, so long as they're willing to pay the consequences of losing what they have. There are so many ways out of a bad relationship; I don't imagine "she was distant" be a "good enough excuse" to me. If she's distant for too long, and we're not married, I'd probably leave first if I wasn't happy, rather than cheat.
4) I was cheated on, and in a pretty emasculating way. I think that hurt destroyed any tiny chance of me cheating, as I know how it can feel.
5) So far, in my relationships, I never really had a desire to even look at anyone else. There are a few of those guys that when they have someone, their interest isn't in anyone else but that person. And when there WAS a chance at temptation, like a victoria's secret commercial was on, I'd immediately change the channel, so I couldn't start have the desire to look.
So, no, not all guys cheat. Not all guys look. In fact, it seems like more and more girls are cheating now; though it's probably been the same throughout the years, but not as accepted or it was kept more private.
GREAT POINT!! Do you want to know what's the difference between a man who cheats, and a woman who cheats?... Well, women are much smarter cheating than men! Men don't know how to cheat, meanwhile, us women, are dangerous cheaters. We know how to clean up the evidence very well. And YEP, lots of women do cheat nowadays. I know a lot of my close friends do, but their poor boyfriends have no clue!!! Another sad truth - 3 months ago
I'm with quatumdefender on this one. I've been the "nice guy" all the time. And have been used, abused, cheated, lied to, etc. With my most recent ex she told me I was the perfect guy for her but there was no chemistry, but there was-- it was b.s. So, once again my heart was ran over. The decent guys that you say are out there. We are not the ones that go out every night to drink and party. (Well I don't) We know how to have fun other ways. To prove I'm a decent guy I've never broken up with one of my ex's. I believe you can work anything through communication. Without that your left with nothing. I'm still hurting from last ex, I don't think she understands what she says sometimes that can be so hurtful and makes me wonder if she has a heart. Or if she was cheating on me.
hello I am kind of guy that like to look at wome and like any other guys and I like more the blondies but if I comit to one girl I comit with all my feelings if I am with an ugly women and claudia schiffer hit on me I will never cross the line and go wit hher and let my girlfriend so I am the only guy that doesn t cheat I think
Well, I don't know if I'm decent, but I don't cheat. Since I have been dating my girlfriend of 11 months, about 6 or 7 girls have offered to "let me cheat" with them, and I haven't done it. Just look in different places.
Love can be found anywhere at any time, and it's not about where you're looking you can still find an abusive man that believes in God at church, and it's still possible to find a nice guy or a sweet guy over the net, not everyone is a pervy stalker on the net, but honestly it's about how you look not where. There's no set locations or instructs on how or where to find the love of your life, just always be ready for them to find you or you to find them. - 3 months ago
I am 39 and still single. I never had a girlfriend nor a realationship. its my opinion that women brush off, or reject nice guys, because jerks are more "exciting" yet women always have the nerve to appear shocked when they get their heart broken. maybe you should have paid more attention to the shy nice guy in the corner not causing any trouble who know how to treat a lady right and won't abandon her. but naaa, women think all men are pigs because her own choices brought her nothing but pain! but that's ok, because a guy like me who can't even get a woman to look his way, think all women are prudish stuck up snobs who are self centered.
I have never cheated on a girl in my life. I have been cheated on by every girl in my last 8 relationships. SO I actually need to ask whether all girls always cheat
Wow, that's a different perspective.....id never cheat ever...i find it hard to trust that there'd b guys out there that wouldn't after my last boyfriend who I thought was at last a nice decent guy. but as soon as he started getting attention he led girls on and then in the end cheated on me. I feel that's so unfair that good guys that would never cheat, get cheated on. its not right. - 3 months ago
I have never cheated on any girl I have been with! My last girlfriend cheated on me on two different occasions. I don't see how you could put someone through such pain. I have seen too many people crushed by their significant other cheating on them. It is a disgusting act, and shows a complete lack of morals, and principals! It is a sad fact that people do it, and do it too often!
I am an exotic dancer/escort and where I live, prostitution is very legal. UNFORTUNATELY, LADIES! Most men do cheat! The majority of the guys that come to these places are either married and/or have girlfriends. SO, most guys, unfortunately will cheat on someone at least once in their lifetime! It's the brutal truth. AND BEWARE, I'm NOT saying all of them cheat, but MOST do.
And you know what I find so curious, the guys that I have sort of interviewed about this topic at my job, some have told me how much they love their wife/girlfriend/fiance?! But Yet, they will come to these places to look for sex or company! They don't consider it as being unfaithful. The #1 complaint from these men are: "My lady doesn't like to give me a blow job, OR she doesn't do it often"!
SO LADIES, a word of advice! MEN LOVE SEX AND WANT SEX ALL THE TIME! have sex with your guy as much as possible, and spice it up! Be creative with sex, and I will assure you, your man will be fully satisfied. and will not search for it elsewhere ;-)
Well, I would disagree with a bit of that, yea I would say most guys are cheaters typically for foolish reasons, however not all men want sex all of the time, believe it or not there are some of us out there that would actually rather just be affectionate, loving, and just cuddle up and watch a movie and talk than have sex. (as shocking as that may sound) - 3 months ago
I wonder the same thing every day. In ALL of my relationships, my boyfriends have cheated. I am now just enjoying being on my own because I am SO OVER assholes! Even the ones I thought would "NEVER" cheat, did just that.
Hello! I wouldn't think so. That's kind of stereotyping to say the least. I know when I'm, in a relationship I don't cheat on my partner. I may look at others. The only time I've actually cheated on my lover is when I was cheated on first. Then, I figure it's fair game, depending if the relationship even lasts at that point.
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