Should I sneak out?

I'm sorry for sounding rude, but why would you listen to what your parents have to say about having a boyfriend if your over 18. there's no need to sneak out considering your old enough to make your on decisions.So just do what you want with out anybody caring.

If 18-24 is really your age, then I wouldn't really pay much attention to mommy/daddy's approval =\.


If you like him, go for it. If your mom has a perfectly justifiable reason for not liking him, AKA he's a creep, then don't.

Don't listen to your mom, don't listen to your heart, listen to your head =P.

Yes, you have a perfect cover story and everything so why not. Plus as ur age is 18-24 it's defiantly not an age problem you should be old enough to make you own decisions.

i say you should go for it. hey, whatever she doesn't know, won't hurt her!

Regardless of your age there's really no need to sneak out. If you're under 18- as I suspect you are- you should respect the rules and boundaries your parents have set up for you. You'll never gain more freedom or trust from your mom if you get caught doing something like that. And you shouldn't put your aunt in the position of lying to your mom either.

Maybe if you talk to your mom like a calm and mature young adult she will agree to let him come to your house to visit (as long as he's respectful). If she realizes you're willing to lie to see him, maybe she'll reconsider her stance. Maybe use the angle that it's safer for him to be there hanging out where she can supervise vs. you meeting him places. If it's real love your boyfriend will understand and also "do whatever he can" to see you- even if it means being "lame" and watching a movie at your mom's place.

If you really are 18-24 you should also respect the rules your mom has laid out for the time you are living in her home. If she doesn't want him around- respect that and find another way to see him. Simply tell her you know she doesn't care much for your boyfriend, but as an adult you've made the decision to continue seeing him. Don't lie about where you are or what you're doing- there's no sense in it. Be considerate enough to let her know what your plans are.

Look, you are at least 18 which means that you are old enough to own up to your behavior. Either you are grown or you're not. Your parents aren't going to agree with every decision you make or like every person you want to be with. Get over it! And please don't get your aunt involved with your elaborate lie.

What is going to happen if your mom knows you are meeting with your boyfriend? Will you be written out of the will? Lose the roof over your head?

Be upfront and honest. That way, you won't have to worry about lying to cover your lies later.

Good luck!