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Why is it OK for men but not women?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: 4 months ago
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So why is OK for a guy to have tons of one night stands and if a women does it it automatically makes her a slut./whore ?

Like who are these guys sleeping with during these one nighters anyway . there's always two people.

It's just not fair and called for! We live in year 2008, come on people . equality!

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That-Guy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Guys have our double standards. For example:

Why is it okay for women to grab our arms, chest or touch our shoulder and drop us the "do you work out" line and if a guy grabs a girls boobs or ass the same line doesn't quite work?

Why is it okay for girls to dress up while for guys you're either metro or gay?

Why is it that when a guy who wants to go dance, he's also called gay or flamboyant? Why is it only okay for a guy to enjoy dancing if he's only on a dance team or something competitive?\

The list can certainly go on and on but the point I'm trying to make is that there are all sorts of double standards, it's just society and these are a few that are included with ours. Otherwise known as social rules.

It's not wrong to have double standards, it's just the cards we're dealt with based on our genders.

Generally speaking, I know women like sex and I'm comfortable with talking to women who have sex often with different men. They enjoy the excitement and fun of new partners just as much as men. But the question comes down to, "would I think you're a slut for sleeping with me on the first date?" Unless we connected so well and talked about a future right there and then? I wouldn't continue seeing you with intent of a relationship.

Ever play a game that you beat in 1 hour? Not a very good game and far to simple for replay.
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Jarett Very true! - 4 months ago

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chance515 (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
Its just something that has to do with the past.

Just like how when someone says the white guy dressed like a thug is a poser, but the black guy dressed like a thug must be in a real gang.
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Jarett (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
I agree with That-Guy. But I also think that there is definitely a double standard. I think that it is definitely wrong to have a double standard, but I can see where it comes from. When women have sex, they are giving up a part of themself. Sex is very intimate for women. It is more of an emotional and love act then it is for guys. Guys would stick their thing in a hole in the wall if it felt good. Sex for guys is all about the feeling. Guys are based off of hormones and adrenaline. Hence why all people doing stupid stunts are guys. We are driven by epinephrine which is a hormone. And part of that is what feels good, ie sex. So sex for guys is all about the hormones basically. Does that make it right for guys to go out and have sex with every girl? No, but that's why there is a difference in the standards.
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That-Guy Refer to my 2nd post. - 4 months ago

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That-Guy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
That's because women in our society are the choosers and men are the chasers. If you want the stigma associated with women and multiple one night stands take away, then you are also giving your role of the chooser away.

Sex is a "gift" that you ration out to men.

As soon as it's more acceptable for women to sleep around then the power starts to shift towards guys as we will have that ability to choose because the girl next to you will also wants it and is trying harder then you.

Women's roles are to stand like a flower while the guy (bee) try to pollinate her.

If you look roman's practice of hedonism, everyone practice sex with one another. An era where it was acceptable for women and men to have multiple partners (also an era of no stds).

You have your cards, we're dealt ours.
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