I hate when women nag and try to change us. These girls "fall in love" with you and then start picking apart all of your "flaws". Why do these women get into relationships just to try and mold you into what they want? They need to accept what they have and realize that they fell in love with this guy because of who he and not try to change him.
Just another question for the guys - do you stay with the woman who trys to change/improve you? Why are these women getting the men? Instead of the women who will truly accept you (and by accept I mean - the way you dress, talk, your general personality, personal habits etc - I don't mean bad things like rudeness, voilence or anything serious that needs to improvement)? - More than a year ago
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I wouldn't stay with a woman like that but some guys will stay out of convenience. It is more convenient for them to put up with it rather than move on. - More than a year ago
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But I hope a guy wouldn't subject himself to marriage to a women who only wanted to change him - as I write this though I know some/lots do! The women feel even more compelled and in charge of "fixing" that man when they are married to him. Good luck to us all - girl, to NOT try to change a man (if he's not right then just move on) and guys, to picking girls who love them for who they are completely. True love is truly unconditional for the right match. Good luck to us all for getting it!! - More than a year ago
I've heard that before! Seriously, how many women are not maintaining themselves? Are you talking about not shaving their legs or not taking a bath? It baffles me that there seem to be so many dirty women. What is going on??? You are right - there is just absolutely no excuse. It is not feminine to not at the very least maintain normal bodily cleanness! - More than a year ago
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Not being honest. I've met WAY too many women who aren't truthful. Even women I'm friends with aren't very truthful.
A common case is this:
If she didn't want to hang out with me, WHY THE HELL DIDN'T SHE SAY SO?!
I completely agree with you there. I hate to see women lead men on! I think it is cruel! The same for men though - a man should not lead a woman on either. Though I think men don't see the signals as well as women do - women can tell when there is a vibe from a guy. - More than a year ago
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Glad to see there's a girl who sees this too. : )
But really, dishonesty has become a trait of almost all men and women. We'd rather completely cut off all contact with someone as a way of telling him or her we aren't interested anymore, than just say to them, "Sorry, I'm not interested in talking/hanging out/dating you anymore. Here's why."
It ain't hard to do but people nowadays are just morons who have no decency. - More than a year ago
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I agree. Just running away is the coward approach to ending the relationship. I believe that all of us deserve to know what was good and bad in the relationship and also have a somewhat decent closure to things - even if one person doesn't want it to end. An honest conversation can go a long way to healing - but more importantly helping each person to improve on the things they really could work on in their own lives so that they will be a better partner for their next guy/girl. - More than a year ago
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I completely agree. Couldn't have worded that better myself :P - More than a year ago
"If she didn't want to hang out with me, WHY THE HELL DIDN'T SHE SAY SO?!" Do you mean she gave you some other excuse like she was busy? I can answer this, because she didn't want to be rude or hurt your feelings. - 2 months ago
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