I'm so sick of it! You're at a bar, you're talking, he asks for your number, you give it to him (the real number, this time) he smiles and says he'll call then he goes back to his friend's and never calls.
If they don't call you, then no, they probably aren't interested.
As to why they tell you they'll call and then don't . . . it's because they don't want to hurt your feelings by telling you the truth, which is that they're not interested in you. And yes, it is something about YOU that they don't like. They won't tell you this because they think -- probably correctly -- that you'll take it personally, even if they don't mean it to be a personal attack on you.
Forget whether or not you slept with him; trust me, if a guy's interested in sex with you, it doesn't mean he's interested in much of anything else. It's possible, but it's not a lock. If you want to keep a guy coming back, don't have sex with him. If he calls you, he's interested for one reason or another. Let the guy close, but be discerning as to whether or not he's actually interested in you for you or for sex. If it looks like he's just in it for the booty, do yourself a favor and dump him.
I think it is simply an ego thing with guys. The fact that you said he goes back over to his friends is probably a clear indication that he is trying to look good in front of them. Some guys are so immature they actually have little challenges going to see who can get the most numbers. Its nothing more than a game to them.
HE IS A PAIN IN THE ASS..SIMPLY HE IS SELFISH AND COWARD. He just don't wanna call you anymore pretending he is busy cause he scared of being committed after having sex cause that was his motive to play around once he got you he juz wanna use and throw you that y he is not calling oyu anymore.may he was only interested in sex nothing more he now you r taking it seriosly so he go missing in action.my advice is juz don't think about him it is not worth it.dump him cause you deserve som1 better.every1 do mistake so forget it even if you slept with him.move on even if you have the right to noe whats happning cause you guess might be right juz don't bother about him.
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I usually try to use humor to break the ice (no not stupid jokes or creepy sexual innuendos) I'll usually ask her a question about a class (if she is in one of my classes) or about something else. I might also comment on her clothing or smile, or something.
Once after that I'll tell her my name, and get a conversation, I'll usually tease her a little to ease any tension
How do they typically respond?
Well, it's worked 2 times and I've used it 2 times.. so 100% so far!
In one case there was girl in my class and she worked at the bookstore. I asked her if she liked the class and she said she didn't know. So I teased her about not knowing her own opinion, (nothing mean, just light humor) after that we got talking and I ended up getting her number.
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
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