I am literally mentally, physically and spiritually tired of thinking about this guy I've liked since I was 13. I am now 20. Its been and off and on thing for 7 years (wasnt in a relationship with him) but now that he's back on my mind. I can't sleep properly, eat, think or breathe without thoughts of him- I am sick of just the thought of him- yet, the thought of not thinking about him- is . well scary. No I don't have any mental disorders I'm just torn over him and I hate it.
have you ever been with this guy? is he family friend?
i had a crush on a girl at school that lasted for years. but I never lost sleep over it.
you remind me of my little sis, she had the exact same thing for one of my best friends at school,.
you gotta get out and meet other people stop worrying about some guy that seems perfect because the chances are he isnt, and you can find better very easily.
if it is really that bad, why not looking into going traveling? come to australia! woohoo! just get out of the place it seeing him all the time is making you feel so bad. its not worth it! you need to move on my friend!
You're probably right- its usually something that triggers thoughts of him... plus I live in Bermuda- a 21 square mile island... (VERY SMALL) its hard to stop being reminded of him... Australia sounds great ... I wonder how many hours it would take though :o) - 2 months ago
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Haha yeah I see your predicament lol I think you have to get out of there! as if you don't want to travel, meet people and see the world! if there is one thing I have learned so far in my life, it is the fact that there is such a diverse range of women out there, and it is my ambition to go and meet everyone of them!!!!!! I'm going to be traveling the world as a career so that will help. ha! - 2 months ago
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Sounds good to me... :O) thanks for the advice - 2 months ago
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You are more than welcome 'question asker' - 2 months ago
yeah I have the same situation with a guy I'm close or somewhat close friends with for the past 1 1/2 years.problem is I see him constantly 2-3x a week on average.sometimes more and I just don't know if he's interested or not.chances are he's not.maybe just because I am used to getting rejected is why I feel this way but I do think about him a lot and I'm tired of it and I do agree.moving on scares me.
I'm glad someone gets where I'm coming from... sometimes I wonder if it would've been better never to have met him.... yet I think God puts people in your life for a reason.... even if it might not be a permanent relationship... but I've a lot from knowing this guy and my heart won't let me let go of him- sigh* its both a blessing and a curse - 2 months ago
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That's exactly how I feel too....there are days where I feel like I'm better off if I have never met him but then because of who he is as a person, I'm a changed person because of him...I'm more confident, I'm more sure of myself....he's been there for me when others haven't and I"m afraid of letting go because I might subconsciously lose touch with him. - 2 months ago
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Yup... that last part you said is the truth girl :O) thanks for sharing - 2 months ago
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I figure that ill stop freaking out about him or making assumptions about how he may/may not feel about me and just enjoy the time I do have with him (however long it lasts) and at the same time not put my dating life on hold for a chance with him...maybe you should do the same? - 2 months ago
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My mind agrees... my heart won't move on ... I know it sounds cheesy but I truly feel that way about him... but you're totally right. - 2 months ago
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Yeah I probably won't listen to myself either lol. - 2 months ago
well actually my in 8th grade my science partner was my first kiss. (it was a peek and it was playing spin the bottle lol). but he was the first that gave me butterflies when I passed by him. Plus he always smelled so good. And its 5yrs later and I still feel the same way. It is scary
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