My boyfriend and I have been going out for four months now. We were talking on the phone last night and I always let him talk about whatever is on his mind before going to bed. Since you get a better night's sleep if your not thinking about a million things. Well, he mentioned our make out session the other day. We were at his house, no parents and we wound up on the floor. We didn't have sex, but got pretty close to it. For some reason he apologized to me last night, said he was sorry, and he needs to respect my body. This is confusing coming from a guy who hasn't been in a relationship for a year and seemed to constantly have sex in his last relationship (of five months). He said he doesn't want our relationship to get that physical. I'm confused because I feel comfortable with it and he's the one who engaged the make out session the other day. Why would he start something, let it get that far, then apologize for it two days later? Someone please help me, explain his behavior. Any ideas on this are appreciated
He might be jumping to conclusions thinking that he offended you by almost ravaging your hot body. Just assure him that you enjoy his making out and physical play. And even tell him that you wouldn't mind sex every day or every other day, whenever. This will keep him from feeling like he's offending you by "always wanting sex." Or, you may want to start making some more moves physically. :-)
men do make a lot of assumptions a lot of the time (most people do anyway) and when they think they hurt your feelings or offended you in which case he assumed he did.then of course he'd like to talk about it and apologize about it. Just reassure him and he'll feel better and be able to move on from that.
he told you he didn't want to get physical so he probably felt bad for going so far. he probably just got caught up in the moment and couldn't control himself all that good. it seems like he respects you and is a keeper!
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