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He called me a "ho" should I be offended?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 5 months ago
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so a guy I know well he calls everyone a ho even his male friends just as a joke or something like if you call your best friend bitch or whatever just cause you do but don't mean it as in she is a bitch! well I was on his facebook and the picture he had of me and him up he wrote me and some ho at the party.ive never kissed him or been with a guy around him so he couldn't of meant in it in a bad way right?but I'm actually quiet hurt by him writing that al his friends were like oh don't worry that's just him.is it ok for me to feel hurt offended and annoyed?

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Just-A-Random-Guy
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Just-A-Random-Guy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Unless he called you a nappy headed ho, I wouldn't worry. :P
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Question Asker I wouldn't be offended by that as i am white - 5 months ago
Answerer In that case it's even worse if he calls you a nappy headed ho. :o - 5 months ago
Question Asker Em ok you are on a total different subject han my questinhe never called me that - 5 months ago

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That-Guy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
You're not the only girl out there who doesn't like to be referred to a "ho." If you take offense then that's fine. It'll teach em' not to refer to women as "bitches and hoes."

You know, If you refer to someone as fag, shrimp or ho for extensive amounts of time it'll take an emotional toll on the person subconsciously.

So yes, be offended.
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
Well, referring to you as ho isn't offensive in my opinion, I often go around saying bitch / ho the girls and friends around me, but the fact to just said Me and `some“ ho is a lot worse I think.
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Question Asker Thats exactly what I thought for some reason the fact he said" some " ho it offended - 5 months ago
 

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ALWAYSclassy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
some people don't think its a big deal, but some do. I would not be okay with a guy calling me a bitch or a hoe either, even if he was just playing around. I would tell him I don't like it. yes, its okay for you to feel how you feel. your feelings count just as much as anyone elses so if you feel a certain way - let him know!
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ViiCTORiA
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ViiCTORiA (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
Yes it is =)
even if he's just playinn you should tell him
my best guy friend called me HONEY
he calls that to everyone but I don't like him
and I told him don't call me that I don't like it
and he understood you should do the same thing=)
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wonderingwhy (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
Yeah because no guy should treat a lady like that and then you stick around to hear it. He's immature. You sweetie need to go searching for other guys who won't call you names just for his enjoyment. If you feel you're not a ho, then it really doesn't matter what they say. All that's counts is what you know about yourself, f*** what everyone else says or thinks because at the end of the don't, when you die, you can only get judged by God and he is the only person in the universe you should have to prove yourself to. Sorry for getting all religious and sh**. Just caught up in the moment. Hope I helped.
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