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Does this mean that I am falling in love?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 5 months ago
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I have been with this guy for days. I feel excited whenever I am with him and I am always thinking about him when he is not around me. I can't sleep at night because I am thinking about him.
I now spend so much time with him and he totally make me laugh from my heart. Anything he is doing makes me happy and I smile whenever I am around him. He kept on telling me that I have a beautiful and gorgeous face, but he never asked me to be his girlfriend although we are going out.
Does this show that I am falling in love because I haven't falling for someone before.I don't know how it feels

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SoulMedic (Age:30 to 35)      When: 5 months ago
I wouldn't exactly say that you are falling in love, although many of the feelings that you are having are a part of being in love with someone. You are merely in the beginning stages of building that. The giddiness, excitement, and pleasure that you get from being around him, and learning more of him is a normal part of that process as you move into building a relationship. As you do, and those feelings grow, it can grow into being "in love".

It is a normal process to move throught the stages of love as you are.but you are only at the beginning.don't rush things.enjoy what you are feeling as long as you can. As your relationship grows.so will your feelings.and they will change with time. Much like children, each phase, each age presents its own gifts. The gift of a 'new' heartthrob is what you are feeling now. Enjoy it. Whether ot not it is being 'in love'.

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kiroarous
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kiroarous (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
its just a crush
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gumkid89
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gumkid89 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
I would think you are falling in love.
But be careful. Don't love someone that doesn't love you back.
It's a waste of energy.
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GoodManDave
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GoodManDave (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
I would say that it's a crush, or at the most, an infatuation. right now. That means that you can easily fall in love with someone, but my feelings is that right now you have a crush on him, which can be both a blessing and curse. Be careful at this stage to try and not fall to hard, or too quickly.

I have the same thing for one of my crushes, though I'm quick to admit that right now, it isn't love (at least, not in a romantic sense). I spent some time with her the other day, and it was wonderful.

Here's where "the curse" comes in: I don't know if she's interested, and I'm slow to show my interest sometimes, because of horrible past experiences, which the whole experience can be frustrating.

The uncertainty CAN be fun, but it can also hurt and make you do dumb things sometimes. And that is what LOVE can do to you too; so it's hard to tell the difference, especially when a person is new to dating. I feel like experience can make us smarter, and better people.

All you can do is show that interest, get to a point where you can figure out whether or not you're at a place in your lives where you two can and should date, and then take it from there - slowly.

I wish you the best, and keep us updated.







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Evilsheepempire
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Evilsheepempire (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
anyone who has read my previous posts on a similar matter, I apologize, but here it is again.

a new romantic relationship allows a chemical hormone to be released from your brain, increasing your energy, your stamina, your alertness,

and it decreases your need for sleep, food, and other things that you would normally need to feel alert and excited.

these feelings are amplified whenever the person who originally triggered these feelings is near you, and when they are not near you they are the person that you always think about.

You are infatuated, not in love, not just yet.

the average human can sustain this chemical flow for about 2 years, and then whatever it is that you've built in your relationship is what sustains you into "true love".

now this is not to say that you can't be in love for those 2 years, but this message is simply a warning against putting labels on your feelings, as they might be misleading.
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sanam I definitely agree with your answer, but I also believe that love is more than just the release of a chemical hormone, its a little bit of magic too! LOL! :-) - 5 months ago
Answerer Agreed, timing and feelings that are beyond any human's control is a big factor. - 5 months ago
kazine Although, not magic. - 5 months ago

 

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LovelyAnita
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LovelyAnita (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
He's probably just trying to get you all buttered up and telling you all these nice things just to get into your pants. I dunno, maybe you should wait it out a bit and see what happens. I know how you feel, I have a few problems myself, but I can't seem to leave him.

hope I helped a bit, made you think at least.
-lovelyanita
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TheoryOfAvarice
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TheoryOfAvarice (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Nah, you're just being a girl. We all feel like this with our boyfriends.
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kazine
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kazine (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
You've been with him for days? =/

Days?! And you think you're falling in love?
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