I've liked him 4 almost 6yrs.but never had courage 2 tell him because his friends knows about me liking him and all.so they end up disturbing and bullying me every time they see me.so I've never really told him that I like him. Well that's not the point. Since he knew that I like him he keep having relationship with girls who looks like me.n even acts like me.i never wanna believe that but my friends keep telling me that she looks like me. One of them even got confused with me and her.she wanted to pat my back but instead patting the guy that I like girlfriend. so what does this mean? Help me.i've been thinking about dis 4 years.
I totally agree with afterschoolgirl. Try to get near him slowly, spend time with him etc. but do not UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES tell him that you like him right away. Wait for that point of information until you two are really close, have had some dates etc.
Playing hard to get/ignoring a guy can do wonders, but don't forget that is you overdo this, he might think that you are just not interested in him. Best of luck to you!
All of this doesn't matter unless you step it up. You and I don't, and can't, really know if that is the case (that he's choosing girls who look like you). If he really wanted you, he'd have made a move already.
However, the good news outweighs the bad in this case.The good news is that there is a POSSIBILITY that he CAN be attracted to you because you're "his type" of girl. Also, there's a possibility that he hasn't asked you yet because YOU'RE PUTTING UP A BARRIER.
I used to have the same problem. You're afraid of being teased so you ignore/pretend not to be attracted to protect your heart. But you know what? It's pointless. Love is not a power game. It doesn't matter how many years you've liked him either (I had a 6 year crush that I wish I didn't spend so much time on, I realized I only liked him because I liked saying how "long I would wait" etc.).
Basically, you have to put yourself out there, even with the risk of being teased. Also, realize that some of what you do is REALLY NOT as "obvious" as you think it is to guys. If his friends accuse you, casually & calmly deny it -- girls and guys can just be friends, right? (this is not the case for guys, however. when they show interest people usually assume it's sexual).
But you have to take action. But build it up SLOWLY, don't go too fast. I know it's hard because they know you liked him before, but if you start doing it slowly (think about it), they will all be surprised. Right now, the more you ignore him, the more obvious it looks that you're keeping it bottled up inside. If you slowly let it out, they'll realize you're not afraid and wonder why -- they'll probably think you're not "obsessive" anymore because your feelings have died down enough that it doesn't make you awkward/nervous anymore.
It worked for me. I was in the SAME situation. I ignored him, acted casual, subtely flirted, and made him more attracted to me but then played hard-to-get (never admit really liking him until you're IN A RELATIONSHIP). Hope that helps :)
I don't think he wants to be with you. if he's known you for 6 years and has not made a move on you. Try to move on. if you have to cut off all contact with him.
hhhmm! who knows what goes on in the hearts of young men today? Surely not me! LOL! maybe he likes you, nothings for sure! we can easily say that this is just a coincidence, but I like to believe in the magic of love, so we can also say that he secretly likes you and that's why he finds himself attracted to women who look like you! you need to summon up all of your courage and talk to hi and tell him how you really feel, its time that he heard it from you and not all of his friends, who seem to be real idiots by the way! even if he refuses your feelings, you'll know to yourself that you made the effort and its his loss and hopefully you'll be able to move on to a better man! I really hope that thing work out in your favor, I know what its like to hold love for someone in your heart only to see them with someone else! It hurts like hell! That's why I can honestly tell you that you need to get things out in the open and see what happens and deal with the situation that arises from there! No matter how things turn out!
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