So lately my guy friend has been being a jerk. it all started with a text when he called me blond because he said something and I didn't know what he was saying. But when I made a comment about him being a blonde and calling me one. He went off on me. And then at tennis practice the other day. We were hitting the balls and I kept messing up because my mind wasn't in it and he kept criticizing me about it. And it really pissed me off. and then after and before practices he ignores me and doesn't say a thing to me expect when he has something to say But the real thing that gets me when I skipped some days because I was tired and he texted me demanding where I was. I mean why is he being a jerk? And how do I tell him he kind of starting to me want to end our friendship with his hypocritical ways.
My guy friends tend to act like this as well. He would act like a jerk, because of pointless things and I was also thinking about ending the friendship. So, the next time he snapped, I did as well. And it worked. May be a primitive way, but it was nevertheless effective. I am not giving you the advice to go down on his level, but don't let him insult and disrespect you like this any longer. Tell him that he is going overboard and if he values your friendship he should behave.
I'd need more detail but the only time a guy has been like this with me is when he really liked me (a LOT) and hadn't been able to make things happen and he was just so frustrated with me and himself. Now I don't know if this applies to your situation at all but that's the only thing that springs to mind. And when it all came to a head one day we had a fight about it cos he'd said something that hurt me and once he realised that he apologised profusely then we sorted it out and he was sweet as pie to me and was my little hunny ever since. But he had been snapping at me and just being a jerk in general. I don't think you should let him away with it, next time he says something critical to you call him on it and tell him if he's going to be like that to you he can go jump off a bridge and that you're not in the habit of spending your time around people that make you feel like crap. Stand up to him. You shouldn't take that from anyone, friend or otherwise.
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