Im I the kind of relationship where we're together but not really together.We talk to each tell each other that we miss each other.He even asked me ones if I love him.which I answered 'i don't know'.But for the pass few days, his been ignoring me. when we're SMSing or chatting,he replies really late. so I tried 2 test him 2 see if he do care about me.im giving myself 3days not 2 SMS or reply his SMS and reply only if he chats with me 1st. But instead he only msg me once and that is also around 2 in the morning.n if I were cold 2wards him, he'll reply quickly. But when I'm treating him normally, he'll reply really late. Three days hasn't pass yet, but so far, he hasn't pass the test yet. what is he trying 2 do 2 me?help!
Seems like he didn't like your reply that you didn't love him, and maybe he decided a bit of a cold treatment. Here is the deal.instead of playing this stupid game of you trying to test him to see how he reacts, best thing is to ask him straight up what's going on; I've met girls in the past that do what you do (trying to figure a guy's behavior by testing him), and eventually I just dump them cause they are not mentally mature; I like it when girls come up and say, hey, why are you doing such and such? This shows me that they got personality and maturity; what you're doing though, is childish. Just ask him and that will make your life a lot easier.
The thing is I asked him already. if he love me. and he sd that his afraid 2 love me because of the distance.we're not that far.bt we rarely see each other bcuz of diffrent University and all.so wut now. i thot that I wuz being childish and stuff.so I asked him strght.n that's wut he replied.HELP! - 4 months ago
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Wasn't he the one that first asked you if you loved him, and at the time you said you didn't know? Look, if he really loved you, the distance wouldn't matter; I had a girlfriend that went to get her master's degree and moved 2000 miles away. Eventually I moved to her, but we spent about a year making trips once every 3 months to see each other. So you see? When you do love/like a person you do make sacrifices; from the sounds of it, this guy doesn't like you enough is my guess. Time to move on - 4 months ago
Totally agree with what wiseman said. I am sorry, but it is your own fault to a certain extent. He asked you if you love him and you did not give a clear answer. It is your turn to approach him now and not vice versa. Best of luck to you. Just feel confident and get him ;)
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