My best friend in the whole world is a girl and I LOVE her sooo very much. Now she is with a guy so I respect that & kept things on a friendly level with her. Her guy in my opinion didn't really treat her to well but I would listen & try not to bum rap him. We had a lot of fun together, in the car on the way to the restaurant I would let her play her favorite songs from her I pod & we would sing or kind of hand/arm dance to them. We would talk about anything & everything including sex & grooming those type of things. We used to e mail or chat at least once a day. A few weeks ago we went on our monthly lunch get together. Everything seemed fine. There was nothing said that I was aware of that upset her. We hugged goodbye & I got a nice e mail from her thanking me for lunch & that it was nice seeing me again & catching up. I have not heard from her since then. I e mailed her once,sent an e card once & even called her once. I never got a response. I know that she is o.k. As a friend saw her out walking her dog. I am so upset about this that I cried. I am beating myself up, what did I do? What did I say? What happened? Then I thought is it possible that she also loved me & since she was with this guy just broke off all communication with me? Ladies please any thoughts? What would you have done? WHY didn't she at least tell me something like I think it's best that we don't see each other any more? Even an excuse like he found out & I don't want to have any problems at home.
That's weird. Maybe her boyfriend said something about it - that he's uncomfortable with you guys hanging out. That's only one possible scenario though. I don't know what this girls problem is but maybe you should just email her once more telling her how confused you are, asking her what you did, and how you thought you were friends.
i think what really happend is that she started to have feelings for you. since she was in a realtionship her man probably got jealous of the two of you, (which I defently would) and said, "its him or me". and she thought about it then she decided. I'm trying not to get too ahead but that's what it seems to have happend. I know from personal expiriences. ^_^
If only somehow someway she would just tell me that. He's not with her 24/7 I just wish I knew so that I could stop beating myself up. - 4 months ago
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And sweetie, she'll never tell you. that's just the way the cookie cumbles... damn I sound old! WFT? lol... ne ways. yeah, don't take it personal. its not you. - 4 months ago
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Do you have any idea why she will never tell me?? I'm getting better but as you can see I'm having a hard time letting go. Why would someone just kick me to the curb like that? - 4 months ago
i know some people that are in a relationship that will not let their signif. other talk to good friends of the opposite sex since all your attempts were by phone/mail, then find a way to talk to her in person who knows, maybe her boyfriend has something to do with it
You never know what could be going on. Maybe her boyfriend forbade her to speak to you again, and snoops in her accounts and deleted your messages. I would talk to a mutual friend and see what's going on.
I don't get it, you have feelings for this woman but don't feel jealous that she's with another guy? You aren't crying over the fact that she's in a relationship but your crying over the fact that she won't talk to you? please explain to that to me.
I respect her relationship with this guy. I wouldn't want someone hitting on my gf. I met her when she was with this guy. It sounds to me like he is a jerk. I have asked her if she was happy & she just said yes, never I Love him. I belive that she is just saying that because it's a "convience thing" Yes I've cryed that she won't talk to me. She is/was my best friend. What do you do when someone you love just stops talking to you?? Yes I wish she was mine BUT I settled for friendship - 5 months ago
Wow. That is not cool. I would find her and ask her in person, what the deal is. I don't think I could let it go . Unless it wasnt as you saw it. Don't be a stalker, but I would try and talk to her.
Well like you said I don't wan't to be a stalker, that's why I only e mailed & everything only once. We work out at differen't gyms I guess I could drop in where she works out BUT why am I there?? - 5 months ago
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Tell her that you are concerned that she has not returned any of your messages ,The new guy might be deleting them, anyway what kinda of friend can she really be if she is going to kick you to the curb like that ... Maybe its a blessing... - 5 months ago
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Yeah it probably is a blessing, I just wish I knew why I was kicked to the curb & your right what kind of friend would do that!! - 5 months ago
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