Today was the last day of my four-week film class, and I did something stupid.
There’s a guy in the class who I’ve had a crush on since Day 1, and I never talked to him. We both ended up leaving after everyone else today, so we were basically walking to the parking lot by ourselves, and he was two feet in front of me, and he actually stopped and looked at me, but I just kept walking and didn’t even look at him. I wanted to say something, but I stopped myself and I don’t know why. I’m so mad at myself for it!
Even though we never spoke, there was just some kind of connection there. And I definitely wasn’t the only one interested.
As part of the program, we had to fill out our contact information for a directory. Unfortunately, he didn’t list any info, but mine is all there—my e-mail address, home address, and phone numbers. Basically, it’s all in his hands at this point.
Do you think he’ll actually make the effort to find me?
Update: I might be able to get his e-mail address. Should I? Or would it be weird for me to e-mail him?
5 months ago
You know what you can fake some reason to email him and introduce you'r self , try to talk about anything don't mention that you like him or you're into him , see what he'll be his react for you're email , if he like's you he will try to keep in touch with you by emailing you back and try to get you're phone mumber .
I mean its hard to say because you both never talked or as you say the last time you saw him you didn't look at him so he'll think that you're not interetsed , does he know one of you're friends maybe he'll try to contact them to ask about you , can you meet him again or that's it no more classs
That's pretty much it. I might be able to get his e-mail address from the girl who's in charge of all the records, but I don't know if it would be weird for me to e-mail him. - 5 months ago
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At this point, I don't think so, because you missed your chance with him when you kept walking instead of talking to him. Fear of rejection can make us do stupid things. However, if you really do like him, and since you ignored him when he obviously wanted to pay attention to you on the last day of class, you could let him know that you do like him by being the one to call him, if you also have a directory with his name in it as well. I think that you having walked past him told him that you're not interested, so most guys wouldn't bother. However, like I said, you could prove to him that you do by making it up to him and calling him. At any rate, good luck! :)
#1) you ignored him, so he probably will look elsewhere. if you show no interest, that's really all he has to go on.
#2)guys are afraid of being "stalkerish" so even if he sees your info there, he's never talked to you, so it would be kinda strangeto call you.he doesn't really have your "permission" to do so.
I couldn't help it! I'm really shy, so I didn't know what to say. - 5 months ago
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It happens :) I guess chalk it up to that.
it takes 2 to communicate (or not). he had his chances too, so don't feel too bad.
and shyness is pretty damn normal. put me in front of a hot girl who I've never talked to before and watch me not know what to say. it's pretty common, some people can get past it, some people just tense up...i honestly don't know how to not freeze, so oh well. - 5 months ago
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I know he had his chances, but I can't help but blame myself. This type of thing happens a lot, and I always tell myself it's not only my fault. But this time, it's different for some reason. I feel like I'm just making up excuses for myself. - 5 months ago
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Mmm, not sure how I can convince you otherwise, other than to say that sometimes connections just don't happen, for whatever reason. what I do know is that blaming yourself won't make you any more likely to be less shy next time. if anything, you do have it easier as a girl I think. you could just smile and then it's all on him. what I would do in the future is not put so much pressure on yourself by waiting til the last day...maybe be a little bit more open a little earlier. gives you time - 5 months ago
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I planned on talking to him before but our class got split into groups, so we weren't around each other as much. Plus, I didn't know what to say! - 5 months ago
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Aww getting split into groups doesn't help...not much you can do about that.
as far as what to say, talk about the class, mention something he's wearing, maybe something that's happeniong around you ("that girl over there talks so much..." ) ...something random that you notice. it doesn't have to be anything important, just something that you notice...then when he responds you can ask his name, tell him yours, see where the conversation goes, etc. if you smile and be yourself you'll be ok. - 5 months ago
What do you have to lose? What's the worst that could happen? Do it! Just make it a friendly one. Then, let him respond, take it from there. Good Luck!
i don't see why he would.i mean if I was walking and someone was tailing me I'd also turn around (I guess I watch too much csi, I wold get freaked especially that it's a parking lot, they creep me out lol) i mean if he were to call what could he possibly say? "hi.remeber me.i turned around and you just walked by me."
ye I sucks, I know how you feel tho because I do the same stuff and then I'm angry at myself thinking I could have at least smiled a hello.but whatcha gonna do.
I didn't stalk him! lol Me and my brother happened to be leaving at the same time as him, and my brother had to go back to the building when we were half way to the parking lot, so it was just me and this guy the rest of the way. It wasn't a creepy thing. A little awkward though haha - 5 months ago
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Lol I'm not saying you stalked him, but I mean I had cases where I would have the same pace as some stranger and we might even end up walking alognside each other, and then try ot speed up to get some distance between it's awkward lol..but ye I mean he doesn't know you and so he would have to turn around to see who it is - 5 months ago
if he is really interested. he WILL contact you. however, there are some guys that are afraid of rejection and since you didn't "acknowledge" him he may think YOU'RE not interested -
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