What's wrong with me, or is it guys?

really you sound just like me , I mean I try all kind of the dating websites , but nothing happened , if you're single and interested , we can chat sometime and maybe we can go out sometime on a real date , this is my email address : wallysptt@yahoo.com. feel free
to email me if you're for reallllllllll.good luckk

I'll be honest with you the same I'd want someone to be honest with me for my sake and benefit. You have a cute face that would be sooo pretty if you played it up with the right make up and hair style. All you need is to lose at least 25 pounds, maybe 30, and you're all set.

In all fairness weight isn't everything. I've seen plenty of chunky women with good men at their side. It's all about how you carry what you have. Change your style, there are many gorgeous clothes that would flatter your body and like I said with the right hair and make up, and some confidence in your strut, you can attract guys. You are not an ugly woman at all. You just need a make over to enhance your looks.

If you do decide to loose some weight, do it the right way. Visit a nutritionist who will help you plan out the right amount of calories you'd need daily and work out. You don't need to go to a gym, you could buy a couple of 5 lb weights, some dvds and a stationary bike or ellpitical. I recommend a stationary bike (the kind that has handles that you can push back and forth while pedaling so your arms get a work out aswell) if you're not used to working out, it's incredibly easy to do and you set it up infront of the tv and just pedal away for 30mins - 45 mins 4-5 times a week, mix it up with some toning excersices and drink tons of water.
Don't believe the hype that you need to spend thousands on an excersice machine to get results. Sure they're good but a cheaper one can work just aswell if done right. When I got my first bike I couldn't really afford one so I spent 100 bucks on one and got great results. It lasted 1 1/2 years then it broke and I got myself an elliptical for $180 which I'm still using.

Also STAY FAR FAR FAR AWAY from diet pills. They are awful, cause health issues in the long run and once you stop using them you will gain back all the weight plus some more and you don't want that.

I know I know I know, I have the same issues with guys and it does make you wonder and question yourself (which I hate). I am pretty confident most of the time but I do have times of self doubt, I know life is not all about guys and getting guys. I have a great set of friends, a good social life and good job but still there is just that little bit missing, that little enhancement of having a S.O.

But I cannot get myself a date, I've stopped looking now which is a good thing I just go out to have fun with my friends and enjoy myself however I still yearn to date and have fun with the opp sex.

Hun you are cute, only lose weight if YOU want too never ever do it because you think its going to change your life, make things start to happen - it won't but if you feel YOU want to then that's great and a healthly mindset.

There is nothing wrong with you, I guess its just life. Its confusing, it can be tough - best thing I guess we can do is tell ourselves how great and gorgeous we are everyday (without getting full of ourselves) so that shines through in our personailities and auras.

I am about to be completely honest, so brace yourself.

You are super cute!

Totally cute. One thing though, obviously just looking at those pictures, when I saw you I thought very cute girl, but I wouldn't feel threatened if my man was at the same party as you. Maybe think about what look you have and if it's helping you be the fine mama you want guys to see you as. I don't mean dress sluty, you don't have to show a lot of skin, look classy and oh so gorgeous.

Every girl is self-conscious about their weight. I know I am. If losing some weight would make you feel better about yourself then go for it. Just be healthy and feel sexy about your body, whether you lose weight or not.

My advice- If I were you, since you're lucky enough to have curves, play them up. Try to trim your middle and focus on dressing to play up an hour glass shape. Most guys can't get enough of that. It's a look where a little extra meat on your bones is crucial, not to mention hot. Work with your body, not against it, you'll get better results!

1. Ok, don't take this the wrong way, but losing weight could help. It'll make you feel healthier, give you a confidence boost, and a reason to shop for new clothes. 2. Work with what you've got. Flaunt your ASSets but don't be a slut about it. Wear clothing that shows off your curves, but doesn't let anything out of the cage. 3. If you're being rejected, that means you're doing the asking. I don't know you, but I don't imagine that you exude sexy confidence. That being said, you're probably not one of the rare breed of women that can just go up to guy and expect him to drool. There are very few of those. Instead, make eye contact with someone and look away. That way, you insinuate that you're interested without worrying about being rejected. Don't go up to guys, let them come to you. 4. If guys are the focal point of your life, you'll never get one. And if you do, you'll have nothing to talk about except your quest for love. 5. Remember, everyone gets rejected at some point. EVERYONE. The prettiest girls get rejected. Being dumped is being rejected. When someone doesn't flirt with you even after you've worked all night to get his attention, you've been rejected. But guys have been rejected too. It's normal. Relax.