I some how run into these girls that think if a guy shows them too much attention then he is to clingy. And they get turned off and the guy ends up loosing the girl. Almost like by showing affection you are too needy. But then I hear this other group of women complaining that guys ignore them to much. That they arnt getting enough attention. So how does a guy walk this tight rope between being to Clingy and not showing enough attention?
I have came to understand that you must first be happy alone before you can be with someone. So you need to have you own set of hobbies outside of her. So when she is away you're doing something, and she wonders if you miss her.
My best answer is to be the clingy guy hidden in the laid-back dudes body. Give credit when credit is due, and don't go overboard, by saving more for later. Let her know you noticed with detail.
Life can become a prison if your in love alone, and if you come on too strong that's where you will end up.
Your the first guy I've ever given best answer. I'm gona take yor advice laid back guys seem to succeed. but we still gota show them that attention sometimes. And that prison line would be poetic if it weren't so true. thanx for the help dude. - 4 months ago
I understand your confusion. It differs with each woman, all you can do is literally ask the woman you are dating. Never assume, ask us, we will tell you.
sorry to tell ya but every girl is different and has there own attention needs. You gotta leave a girl with wantin more. I don't know how it is really done on a guys part but I know myself if I guy was 2 ring or txt me the quicker I answer the phone means the more I want them. If it takes me a while to answer a txt msg or to ring them back then I am either playin games and want they guy 2 chase me or he is bein 2 clingy and has rung once 2 often.
I personally feel a guy can never get too clingy. I love when guys really listen to me and show affection, it gives me a great feeling about myself. I don't know about other girls, but that's just me.
You need to have your own life outside of the relationship. Depends on who you're dating or in a relationship with. You can include your date or girlfriend into your life by making time for her but you can't live your life depending on her or being co dependent and keep calling her or expecting to hang out with her just because you have nothing to do.
Generally better to let them complain you're not paying enough attention to them than being clingy which essentially drives them away. If someone's interested in you, they'll figure out ways to be with you.
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