I've been seeing my boyfriend 3 months now and we both fell for each other. I am very happy and he has told me that he is also. He has spoken about marriage to me and we discussed waiting for at least another year until we really know each other and we want to be sensible about it. Up until now nothing about him annoyed me. I think he's great. He told me that before he met me he fancied this girl (Julie) but was always afraid to ask her out. He said her boyfriends were always douche bags and it annoyed him because he knew that if he was her boyfriend he would really look after her. I thought it was really sweet that he liked her so much.
Yesterday we were in town and I was speaking to a friend of mine and he wandered off to look around. When he came back he told me that he had seen Julie and he would have liked me to see her. The following day a relation of his was having a small party before going to his prom night. His date was there and I said to my Boyfriend that she was a really pretty girl and looked lovely. He said: "I didn't actually notice. I don't really notice girls since I met you. Even yesterday when I saw Julie the only part of her I looked at was her ass."
I know guys look at girls and I look at other guys but did he really need to tell me that? I haven't the best figure but am not overweight. I am a pretty girl and I suppose I felt compared to her and put under pressure to loose a few pound. I'm not willing to change myself/body to make him happy. I want him to love me just the way I am. I'm very surprised at how insecure I am about it.
I set high standards for myself.sometimes unachievable standards and in the past I have worked myself into the ground over them. Recently I have been to counseling over family and personal issues and I'm trying not to set such high standards. I can't be any more than I am but don't want to loose him.
he probably meant it as a throwaway comment like if a girl said "i was only looking at his legs". it doesn't mean that he thinks that your ass is bad, he was playing down looking at her, and in this case actually made it worse for himself. dont feel bad about it. If you are talking about marriage, obviously he cares a whole lot about you. don't let a little comment get in the way of your relationship. he loves you the way you are.
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