I want to know what problems you're having in your relationships due to insecurity. I recently checked the history on my boyfriend's computer and found that he's been looking at other women online. This would be fine with me if they were celebs or something.but they're women on his facebook friends list that are kissing eachother, or in their bras and panties etc. He found out and got very pissed- said he can look at whatever he wants. What problems have you encountered due to insecurity?
I am having that problem now and I am trying to get over it. I always feel that I'm not good enough for him because he has a lot of friends that have more in common with him than me. Also because they're spoiled rich and have cars and money and apartments and they don't have to work for it and I'm just working full time to get a car, and apartment etc and when he says hey my friend just got a new car and that friend happens to be a female I sort of get discourage because I have caused him so many problems with my jealousy and I am trying to turn it around but it doesn't help when he brings up things like that. All I can do is let it go and keep telling myself that money doesn't matter to him and that he loves me regardless.
My insecurity is that I feel like I'm not good enough for him or something. All guys look at girls, but I feel like he campares me to them. He's never done anything that would make me think that, its just how I feel sometimes. I guess because the girls that he looks up are really pretty. My insecurities have effected my relationship by me feeling like he doesn't care about me as much as I would hope and things like that but I'm working on it. It seems like girls will always feel compared to others. Bit I guess all we can do is know that we aree good enough.
Insecurity sucks. I've been there myself. It can ruin relationships. The thing is, most humans will see members of the opposite sex and actually think of them as good looking. The only way to really protect yourself is to build your self confidence up. If he is just looking than that's fine. If he's going out with these girls or even flirting then that's not ok. You have to have the confidence that if he's dumb enough to cheat and you catch him you can just shake your head, say "your loss" and walk away. It's not easy. For now, you have to work on your self trust as well as trust with your boyfriend. A relationship really cannot thrive if there is no trust.
mine rightfully ended it. he was always at other females' houses. some ex girlfriend and some he knew had crushes on him. he was def a loser. watch out for your guy if something doesn't seem right it probably isn't
*pout* really? because one of my rly rly good friends has gotten rly close to my boyfriend lately and he talks about her with me, and how they talk on the phone and stuff... guys being close friends with girls who are not there girlfriends is okay right? because I rly rly trust him, but I don't know lately its like he's not all there or something - 2 months ago
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I have really really good female friends too I was never that close to their boys and they weren't that close to mine. but that's me and my friends. you and I and our friends are diff people. and yea guys and girls can be good friends but everyone I know who are great friends with the opposite sex has either dated them, wants to or is. for me them being that close would be a red flag no matter how secure I am. havin your guy talk to/hang with another female more than you is not ok unless related - 2 months ago
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