I'm not saying that I disagree with the women on here.
However, I've seen all or some of you make comments on here over different subjects regarding whether a man or a woman should make the first move. Be it asking someone out, paying for the evening, committing to the other, and now the L word.
The one thing that has remained a constant among all of you whether you commented specifically on each subject or not is that the man should always be the one that acts first.
Now, I don't mind that your thought process, but with all the talk about empowering women, and letting women take control of the situations they find themselves in, why are you all still reverting to the man doing everything first?
I'm sorry, but that doesn't match up to posts where the statement is made "Men and women are equal."
If we are truly equal, then women should be initiating as much of the dynamics in any relationship as men. To constantly demand treatment as an equal, but then to require all actions and initiatives to made by a man is inconsistent and counter productive to that ideal.
Being an equal means that you share in the rewards AS WELL AS the risks.
"Sharp & Ganong (2000) found that men fall in love more quickly and have higher levels of romantic beliefs than women." Men usually express love first.
They will also say the phrase for a sexual agenda.
I'd just like to make a correction. Testosterone is not the issue here, it's a lack of oxygen to the brain. Easily confused, distinctly different. - 4 months ago
The guy should definantly say it first because, when guys hear that you love them and they don't feel the same it can drive them away. So wait until the guy says it.
I tend to let the guy say it first because if guys aren't feeling it yet, they can sometimes get driven away by hearing it. It's sad, but true. It's not always the case, but pretty common.
"Daughters of jerusalem I charge you by the gazelles and does of the field, do not arouse or awaken love until HE SO DESIRES." Guys are supposed to say "I love you first." Guys are supposed to love the girl even before getting into a relationship with her.
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