If you know of such a story that you are not necessarily directly involved in please share it. Do some women out there deliberately take advantage of the law such that she can marry a man then cheat on him and then have the nerve to take his wealth and ask for an alimony? If you did cheat on your faithful husband would you still try to take his money or house?
Have any faithful men been a victim of this and get caught completely off guard by your ex-wife? Do women do this even to a faithful husband?
I am afraid to get married in the future because women can do this and the law is on their side (if the husband has more money than her or a house). I am really afraid of women because of this. I know I am young now (and hence broke) but I have a good career and I won't always be broke. Losing a cheating wife can be hard enough, but losing the roof over your head to a cheating wife only magnifies a mans situation.
So if you are one of these women or men (or know of one) please feel free to share your story.
Update: Actually the women who plan to do this are fairly easy to catch because greedy bitches are easy to spot. I'm talking about women who act on an impulse who you may not be able to predict.
4 months ago
I can't believe you're so NAIVE. Talk to any attorney, male of female, that handles divorce cases, and they will tell you plenty of women make a career of this. Naturally they only pay attention to men with money.but that hardly makes them stand out, does it? It's just that they PLAN to do this, sometimes implicitly and sometimes quite deliberately.
Unfortunately many women do not PLAN to do this initially but take this approach when things don't work out..and this helps explain why many men seem to ONLY want sex...they have been burned by such women in marriages or ltr's
Let me just add that it's not so simple as not getting married. The law says that any sort of 'relationship; especially if kids are involved means that the woman gets most of the man's assets even without marriage. Sure it works the other way but..how often? - 4 months ago
Question Asker
The fact that they don't plan it but then change their mind and become total bitches is what scares me. You can't predict it, and you can't discern it from the woman's behavior until it's too late. - 4 months ago
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Since even Da boss says I'm righ, how about a best answer?? - 2 months ago
Question Asker
I know these "career wives" exist; I have seen the movie "Intolerable Cruelty." The ones who do it spontaneously and unpredictably and only once in a lifetime are my worry. - 2 months ago
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Just don't get married, man. You can live with a woman, start a family, have kids, everything. All a marriage is is a contract. It's a corporation merger. Your assets and her assets become one and then when they split, the weaker of the two companies needs to be bought out. It's like that with all legal contracts.
It's that simple. It's not worth it. Imagine all the hard work you are doing right now to get the career you want and then some woman comes along, you marry her, and basically hand half of everything you earned to her right off the bat. Have kids, she gets more and most of the time pre-nups are thrown out when kids are involved. Have a nice car? She gets that too. Big house, you know she's going to be living it with the new man she gets.
In my eyes, no woman is worth that.
This video pretty much sums up what marriage is nowadays.
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