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What does she mean?

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lonlyguy (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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a couple of days ago I asked this girl I like for a favor and she helped me but before I dropped her off she said the I owed her big time. then today when I saw her she said she was thinking of what she wanted for a payback and that she might call at noon, midnight, or whenever but she expects me to be there. the thing that confused me was the way she said it. She said it in the most flirty way. What does she mean by this the favor I asked for was just an opinion on some clothes. Does it mean she likes me of just wants me to do her a favor? I like her a lot but she confuses me because she has a boyfriend but still tells me she loves me and always gets mad if I don't say it back. I know I should leave her alone because of him but I have had a crush on her for the last 3 years but am to big of a wimp to say anything about it I would just like some other peoples opinions on the subject. thanks

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jaylow (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
This is the biggest flirt ever. With this it keeps her in control and you guessin. Ur reactin how she wants you 2 react. I play this one all the time. just don't even think about it the favour will be so stupid she just wants you 2 b like this 4 a few days and keep guessin hahaha.

on the suject of you and her. Well you really need to tell her or just keep things the way they r. if you tell her and she doesn't feel the same then ur friendship could go down hill but if she does feel the same then great hope things work out for you although the fact that she has a boyfriend kind of says she probably won't feel the same. if you decide not to say anythin then just stick to it and try move on don't waste 2 much time hopin one day she will realse she loves you and doesn't want any1 else. Either way make a decision and stick to it.

Good luck and sorry if this isn't really what you wanted to hear. Gotta be truthful in what I think
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martyfellow (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
FIRST.it's always trouble if a girl with a boyfriend is talking to you like this. There are many possible reasons and they are almost all BAD for you. Just for example, she could be trying to make him jealous. Look, if she hasn't responded to your crush in 3 years, she's not likely to develop one for you know.

More than likely she's just using you for SOME purpose so stay away! See if she chases after you when you pull back. If she does, try and talk to her boyfriend when she's not there to see what might be happening.
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Badbruce (Age:30 to 35)      When: 4 months ago
I have no idea what she means. she could just be 'having you on' as we say in Ireland, it's quite possible. So watch out. Especially since she already has a boyfriend and she knows you're shy, they can really be mean.

After 3 years it's unlikely she's suddenly developed a crush on you so I'd really keep my distance.

She could also be using you in some revenge trip on her boyfriend. That can be even WORSE since she will probably still wind up back with him after she gets through toying with you.

I hate to sound so negative and cynical but I think that's the wise policy here.

Any chance you can talk to her boyfriend about her without her being around? He may not be 'in' on this game but he'd know if she's the type to play games.
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