Women sure call men sexist alot, although they sure seem like the sexist ones?

I think women say that to make you understand some aspect of their behavior--like asking "do I look fat in these jeans"--men will never understand why we ask and probably will forever think it to be lame.

Personally if I ask a question like that it isn't loaded--I really want to know--I am curvy so some things I look good in some I don't--I accept that. my hubby is brutally honest too--but I appreciate it.

Like Cool, I don't like being stereotypes and lumped into a group by other women--there is so many aspects of female behavior I don't agree with (like the blind devotion to stupid shows like SEX 'N THE CITY) or acting cattily towards pretty chicks.

I don't like when women say stuff like that. Half the time, I never do the "women thing" they're talking about, so I hate being labeled that way.

It's not meant to be sexist though, I think it's kind of like a unity thing--we like to think we understand each other on a level that men can't.

But if there were a committee and hearing on the matter, I'm sure you wouldn't have been invited because you're a man haha

Yes, the double standard here is pretty obvious. Any time they don't have a way to defend their position in a debate they invoke 'the women thing.you're a guy you can't understand.'

Of course we can say 'it's a guy thing' but they will challenge you, while it seems to be some sort of rule that once they say it's a 'gal issue' you can't challenge it and the discussion is over!

How many times have you heard the 'women thing' dismissal? I bet I've heard it 50 times.