Guys its happening again. the phenomenon every guy has been threw and the one no women ever acknowledges. to be fair guys I don"t think women even know the problem exists. But I think every man has been threw it at one time or another. Yea I'm talking about the 2 opposite groups of women who never seem to meet each other but always have us guys in the middle. The Mary Popons and Britney spears types. Now with the Mary Popens girls. aka the get down to responsibility girls everything a guy does is immature. Going to a bar and getting a drink is immature,making a joke with anything sexual is immature. going to an amusement park is as well and they tell us its time to grow up. in these womens eyes all men act like children. then you have the other group. The Britney Spears types. Going to a bar is never good enough and when you go to a night club and dance for 45 minnuts these girls will wonder why you couldn't stay on the dance floor for 3 hours straight. Or why you didn't get up and dance on the bar. There the girls at the amusementpark who will hop on the same rollar coaster 5 times. wear most guys can do it twice and then move on. They are the girls that just getting drunk isn't enough for. They stick there head out the window and scream at the top of there lungs. These girls are so wild that they are hard even for the most liberal guys to keep up with. Guys I don"t think the ladies are even aware that we are caught between 2 groups of women. The one group thinking we are immature and the other realy hard to keep up with. I mean what guy dances on a bar and then screams as loud as a girl drunk in a convertable. But have you ever heard a girl refrence this situation men are caught in. No. but its not because they are ignoring it. I don"t think they are aware of it. You see the stop the nosence women never meet the party annimal women. and 99 percent of all men fall in between the 2 groups and both sides critisize us for being on the 50 yard line. Or not at either endzone. Trying to go from one extream to another would make any normal person go crazy. Try being the gentlemen butler and then mr wild and crazy. that's not gona happen. So we are forever caught being either to lame or to immature. And the two groups of women are all but unaware of the other groups existence. is this a problem with no solution? should we just deal with the critisizm? or is there a way out of being stuck in no mans land?
Its funny how you categorized them into only two groups. There are SOOOO many groups women can be categorized in. So many. Just like men can be categorized in soo many groups as well. Im sorry you had to meet these weird women, but I have good news! There are a lot of women out there who are well -- in the middle. Women who knows how to have fun, and be serious when needed. Women who don't believe in changing men, or anyone for that matter. Women who appreciates a man for who he is, and what he does. Women who can respect a man's interests, and still accept him. Women who can make you smile when you're feeling down. And -- I could go on all day. You're just looking at the wrong places. When you do meet the right girl though, you'll realize you DO belong here, and its a man and woman's land after all.
Of coarse there are girls in the middle. but you are gona remember the loudest voices the ones who nag you a lot and the craziest ones. now you are remembering them for 2 different reasons but they both stand out. by the way if they act like this but let men be themselves there's no problem. let em act how they want just don't make us feel like aliens - 4 months ago
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Haha true. They do stand out huh. I get annoyed too, trust me. They make me feel like an alien (sometimes) too. Men and women. Just like the women you described, there are also men who make us feel -- unaccepted. Not good enough, matured enough, smart enough, cute enough, or fun enough, etc. And it sucks, when you're just wanting to hang out and have fun. Maybe all the aliens should just get together ;) - 4 months ago
That's crazy. There are not 2 different types of women that are to that extreme. Most women have a little bit of both, the percentages vary from girl to girl.
Of coarse there are more girls in the middle. if everyone fell into these 2 groups it might be easier to talk about with women couse they could relate. This is how a guy feels though it is like being a pinball inside a pinball machean. there was once a girl at a party who was telling everyone to stop drinking so much and grow up. I thought just the way she was until I found out from a friend the previous night she was running around in her underwear. - 4 months ago
Um.I have no idea what women you are talking to or have dated. I personally consider myself neither a "mary poppins" nor a "Britney". Things in this world are not so black and white. I know plenty of girls that can ride a rollercoaster, go to a bar, stay at home and have a quiet evening, go dancing sometimes.I personally am like that myself.
Well I know for sure there are girls out ther who aren't that bad. now if a man can't deal with this "mary poppins" or "britney spears" kind of girls its going to be difficult to find a gf. Because all of us have a bit or mary poppins and britney spears in us.
Thats cute. actualy I would prefer that. then all of the one or the other. this is a weird point of view for a girl to hear. but it is a fact. guys don't know how to explain it so you may noy get more info unless you ask - 4 months ago
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Lol its true sometimes we get out of hand and party to much and at times we are very mature - 4 months ago
Look this is a situation guys have been going threw for years. and you girls may be the first to see the whole picture. we guys very rarely ever talk about this. so this may be the only time you hear about it. you have just been let in on one of the biggest seacrets most women don't know of. be happy you get to see our point of view. - 4 months ago
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Girls go through this thing all the time... the double standard when it comes to sex... if you do it before marriage, your considered a slut, if you do it after marriage, your a religious fundamentalist whose psychotic and belongs in a psychiatric ward. That is unfortunately what my best friend, and 85% of the 30+ guys on this site believe. I've been called an idiot and retard by some for being a virgin, and a slut by others for making out with guys who called me less than once a week.... - 4 months ago
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What are you talking about. now I know why we don't talk to girls about this. you are not in either category. you could have sex 100 times a month and still let guys be who they are. and you could never have sex and still not critsize guys for doing so. so I'm talking about the women who think us having fun is a crime and the others who think you are lame if you don't scream out of a convertable and have a beer in the car with you. its a squeez of men. if you let us be its cool - 4 months ago
I've had a de-cafe version of your experience but would catogrise women in two groups
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