Girls - Do you believe in the perfect guy?

If I ever met my perfect guy I know I wouldn't think he's real. I'd think I was dreaming or something.

If I were with my perfect guy I don't know if I could love him like I want to. My head would try to rationalize why such a perfect guy is with me and if I can really trust him. He could just be using me. It could all just be a game to him. My mind could runaway with those thoughts. And that would be something that could keep me from loving him - the constant fear of getting hurt.

But that's just me. Not all girls are like that.

yes I do and I'm sure one day a girl is gonna claim you as their perfect guy.
i think at first the girl will be walking and air then she will get used to the fact that she is so lucky

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you seem really nice but, sometimes all the sweetness has to be balanced out by a little fun and kidding around. I'm glad you've got some chivalry which is cute, but not much more. So, tease your girlfriends a little. Not about her hair or weight or outfit, those might hurt her feelings. But something so that she knows your kidding but it's funny. The perfect guy like you is raelly great t have a crush on, but things have to get real sometime.

Personally, I would be scared of losing him after awhile. When someone is that good to you, your mind tries to rationalize reasons for you not to give your heart to that person. Its almost like a defense mechanism, protecting you from what we girls and sometimes guys deem to be the inevitable. he or she could possible tire of you and move on to another person. leaving you with your heart broken in so many pieces you don't think you'll ever love again. Some of us feel we are unworthy of love, maybe we've been used and mistreated, maybe we've given our hearts to someone and they hurt/rejected us. The heart is a complex thing, it's not only just a body organ its something we invest in. we put our sanity on the lines sometimes just because we see the possiblity of love- in the end, it all comes down to protecting ourselves against being hurt, every human is equipped with that survival mechanism.

Have you ever watched the movie "Bedazzled"? Well, in short, it is about a guy that sells his soul to the devil in order to get the girl of his dream. So he gets 7 wishes and none of the wishes turn out. In every wish, he doesn't get exactly what he wanted. Well, there was a scene in there when he wishes he was really sensitive and that she loved him. In the end, he was too sensitive for her even though she loved him. By being super sensitve, it pushed her away. Every girl likes a sensitive, caring man, but there is a point when it is overboard. Girls like to feel loved, but they don't want to feel choked by all the love either. You have to put your part in (your opinion) into a relationship as well.

you are too much of a good thing which then becomes bad, you have faults like the rest of us no guy is perfect at all so I don't believe in the perfect guy I believe in a guy whos made for me but defintly not a perfect guy there is no perfect guy or girl
being too nice and catering can be really a turn off I don't mean for you to start acting like a prick I just mean you don't have to thoughtfull and prince charming every second of the day you can just lay back and relax and have fun like
i had a guy that was similar to you and him being so super nice and all really drove me away I wasnt looking for a bad boy at at all I just didn't want mr happy every minute of the day I wanted someone who had there own opionons and who would put me in my place when wrong instead of agreeing with me the hole time

don't change, you'll find the right girl. You deserve to be treated just as well as you treat others, don't give up looking for that. Some girls just like the "bad boy" type. I don't know what's going on in our brains sometimes. But honestly, I've been thru the bad relationships and treated like crap, I'd love to have someone like you now. Don't try to change, please. You will make some special girl very happy some day. Just don't rush, take your time and the right girl who will appreciate you, will come along. But do remember, that being super nice and a perfect gentleman is awsome, but don't smother, or act obsessive, that scares us off quick. Careful not to smother. Good luck.

Because you are too catering. Too much of anything is not good. I dated a guy like you once. I'd ask him what he would like to do and he said, "Whatever you want to do." He was incapable of making up his own mind. It drove me nuts. I wanted him to have an opinion and him to have his own life. It's good to be sweet and romantic. But don't make yourself a slave to a women or even praise them too much.