I keep having these crazy dreams?

You're dreaming about it because it's on your mind. The deleted texts, your friends' comments, all tie in together making you worry about it more, so before you fall asleep at night it's probably the last thing on your mind, so you dream about it too. If he isn't doing anything wrong, why isn't he putting in the effort to ease your worries? Why is he still secretly talking to his exes, doesn't he know that's disrespectful to you? It's possible that nothing is going on and you're just worried because you've been burned in the past and his shady chatting with the ex isn't helping the matter.

Anyway, try unwinding a little more before falling asleep. I hear a hot bath helps girls unwind. Do some reading, a fantasy novel or something that interests you that isn't about love or relationships. Or try laying in bed, relaxed, and thinking about your favorite activities, think about things you want to dream about while you're laying there about to snooze. I've found that a lot of times by doing this I can actually control what my dreams may be to an extent (sometimes better than others). Basicly either clear your mind or fill it with things you want to dream about, because if you're falling asleep worrying about what's going on with him (which I'm betting you are) that's probably why you're having bad dreams about it.

Many times the dreams that we have represent a fear that we have. For instance when I was taking a new job (and really getting into a completely new career on my own) I kept having dreams of driving off a bridge, or landing in water, or losing control of my car. What I finally noticed was that I was having that same feeling outside of the dream too. I was really feeling out of control of everything, and kept worrying that everything would fall apart, etc, etc.

The majorty of times I don't believe our dreams are meant to be taken literally, except the one were I was at school naked,. I still don't know how exactly that happened, but not one of my better days. (cough)

Anyway, perhaps you are really into this relationship and are afraid of losing it, or perhaps you are scared of something happening in your life that you don't have control over, or being betrayed in another way. Try focusing on HOW you feel in the dream, and EXACTLY what bothers you (is it him with the other girl, him not with you, him not being in the house, etc.) That might give you a little better insite into what is really on your mind.

Hope this helps.

have your dreams in the past ever come true?
Sometimes dreams are just fears or desires that we have; for example, one time I wanted a job really bad, and for about 2 weeks, I kept dreaming stuff about that job; like I got interviewed, and I was about to get hired, etc; every morning I woke up hopeful. Realty is that I never got hired by the place.so I think I was so obsessed with the idea, that of course, I was dreaming it. Maybe your fear that he could cheat is obsessing you.but if you're like my sister who dreams and a week later her dream happens, well, then, he might be cheating 8)

well I was always told most dreams mean the opposite in real life. An example if you dream of a birth then someone is going to die. (sorry only one I could think of) or if you dream of a death then some is pregnant. there is a lot of different things like that and I've seen it happen 2 people. So ur dream could simply mean that he would never cheat on you or leave you or even that he loves only you or that ur soul mates somethin along those lines.
I also heard once that ur dreams revolve around what you thought of 2 secs before you fell asleep but I do think it's impossible 2 no exactly what you were thinkin in those 2 seconds as you can think of different hings so quickly. Those last 2 seconds b4 you sleep you could have thought of him