Is it bad that I have these weird feelings?

Oh man. That's a tricky situation you've got there. Being a 16-year-old straight girl I probably won't have the greatest advice ever, but I'll just give you my ideas.

First of all, OF COURSE THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU! Don't be irrational lol.

So, it sounds like he probably does have a thing for you. I mean really. What kind of 100% straight guy asks a random dude he meets one day to hang out at the beach to teach you how to surf.? If you see what I'm gettin' at. Have you ever even heard him talk about 'hot girls' or anything of that nature? If not, he probably is into boys and thought you were attractive =]. So if it's his reaction you're worried about, then you could probably just subtly drop hints that you're into him until he makes the initial move. And if he really is simply interested in just a friendship, then the little hints you drop will just go overlooked and he won't get creeped out or anything. (You could also take the sneaky road and figure out his sexuality by looking at his myspace/facebook. Hehe.)

As for your confusing emotions. It sounds like this is the first time you've ever experienced such feelings towards a male. Correct? It could just be a one time thing. Or just your young hormone crazed imagination running wild! (haha). Are you positive that these feelings towards him are completely genuine? If not, I definitely would not risk telling him. For all you know, tomorrow you might be laughing at this whole thing and not like him "in that way" at all. Plus if you tell him, and the feelings aren't mutual, it could result in a loss of a friendship, as well as damage to your reputation. Like I said before, it would probably be smartest to just wait it out let him make the move. Then from there you can decide what exactly it is that you want.

Hope this helps somewhat! Good luck.

OK. WELL FIRST OF ALL YOU SHOULD NOT FEEL WEIRD ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS CAUSE THEY ARE THERE FOR A REASON, AND TRUTHFULLY YOU ARE NOT CONFUSED CAUSE YOU KNOW WHAT YOU LIKE THE ONLY THING THAT IS REALLY CONFUSING YOU IS CHANGE. REALLY I THINK YOU SHOULD LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU REALLY FEEL, CAUSE IF YOU CONTINUE TO FEEL THIS WAY WITHOUT HIM KNOWING YOU COULD END UP WITH YOUR FEELINGS HURT.

It's okay to have feelings for another guy. And it seems he may also have feelings for you. There's nothing wrong with you, you're just bi/ bi-curious. Just ask him if he wouldn't mind kissing to find out if you two like it. And if you have to play pathetic and tell him you've never kissed someone so he'll kiss you out of pity, okay. Just figure out if he has feelings for you.

wow. idk. um, I agree with everyone else. let him make the first move. but from the outside looking in, it looks like you're both dating already. I think you should ask him if he has a myspace page as well, but then again, he could be just as confused as you are. keep hanging out with him and c what happens. c if anything changes or if ur feelings remain the same.

Not a gay expert here, but got a few gay friends, so if you think about it, have you done that before with other guys----i mean, inviting them to go out,paying for their stuff, inviting them to come over, exchanging numbers.etc. From those actions I would say the guy is gay or bi. I would say hang out again and see what happens next time you go to his place, cause from the sounds of it, is just a matter of time before he makes a move on you, I would think.

Wow I really don't know what kind of advice to give here. I've got a couple of gay friends so it really doesn't phase me. It's a pretty sticky situation, I've always advised people to be honest with their feelings. But if you're totally honest with yours it could have far more implications than I'd ever imagined. If you tell him and he doesn't reciprocate then you lose a friend and risk ridicule over something you're not even totally sure about. If you think the attraction is mutual maybe the safest thing would be to just let him make the first move. I mean, he invited you, he bought your meals, If he is into you then I'd think he might also make the first move. Get more advice, I really don't want to steer you in the wrong direction. Best of luck.