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What am I supposed to do/think now?

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phantom-sausages (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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I'm going to try to sum this all up in a nutshell.

When I was fourteen I liked this guy in my gym class. I never talked to him, but we shared similar interests and whatnot. By the next school year his friend told me he liked me, and when my own friend asked him himself if he did, he said "Not telling".

Soon after, we started talking online (AND ONLY THERE). We would walk by each other and he'd look tense and look away. Sometimes we'd make eye contact, but mostly he looked scared. By the time I was sixteen I got around to asking him if he liked me, and he gave me "as a friend", and told me his friend was kidding. Note, this was all online. I said to myself "yeah, he said that, but he's shy and could have been covering up". But then I'd contradict that with the ways he's shown he might not like me.

So now it's a new school year and I have a class with him. First day I was nervous and choked, but today, when he walked in, he winked and smiled at me and we made two second eye contact. His face was somewhat blushing, but I was still happy.

My main questions are these: Now that we have a class together, is it like starting on clean slate with him, or were his feelings made before he really "knew" me? Also, what are ways to tell if he's interested?
Thanks in advance.

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pwl0lwp (Age:36 to 45)      When: 4 months ago
hmm - a blush response is difficult to fake, although of course f he was flushed with running, etc then that might also explain it.

time = relationship; if you want to get to know this guy better then you might have to make the first move to ask him out (or at least offer to do something together)
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briekittie (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
i say that maybe you could talk to him try sitting bye him and be like so what's up how you doin shit like that. and maybe something can end up good =]

i wish you the best of luck.

how old are you now?
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I'm sixteen. - 4 months ago

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wonderingwhy (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
What a nutshell. I'd say he is playing a game. He's being a typical boy though. I say go with what you feel and if you like him, maybe you should just give it a try.
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