Well I have been reflecting on myself lately and finding myself to be very feminine. I have known that I am very sensitive and caring, and I know that is uncharacteristic of most males. But recently I have been reading this manga (comic book) about this guy who cross-dresses as a girl. He is maturing and getting more "manly" at first he despises his maturing because it is preventing him from cross-dressing, but then he starts to hate it because it causes him to have impure thoughts and mannerisms towards this young girl with whom he is in love with. (of course the story is more in depth then that but this is enough info to get my point across)
This is a manga marketed to females (referred to as shoujo) I enjoy a good romance story but what really draws me to this story is I relate to the main character. I'm not into cross-dressing and I'm not one of those people who believe I was born the wrong gender. But I do think that I, at times, can be overly feminine. I have admitted this and come to terms with it along time ago, but recently it has affected my dating. Not in a serious way but still.,.
Although the manga did help stir up this question, but while I was pondering it I took stock of my past relationships. And I discovered that out of 5 serious relationships 3 of them ended because the girl was more into females then males. One was always more into girls then males the other 2 discovered that as they were dating me.
I don't really know what my problem is I know I don't want to change and most likely can't but I do want to know if it is possible for a guy to be too feminine. Also I just want some outside input on this situation.
I think your over-thinking it, if your exes realized they liked girls more. I don't think that has anything to do with you being feminine, it sounds like maybe you just need to mature.
Dude, quite trying to convice yourself of something your not. I'm quiet, caring, sensitive, loving all that. That doesn't make me a girl. Your past girlfriends have issues, those aren't YOUR problems, they're THEIRS. It doesn't sound like you have problems. It just sounds like your over-thinking things and are getting your mind all warped up. Just because things are not working out for you doesn't mean jack. Get your game together man, be confident, and go get 'em tiger!
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I think you've just had bad luck. Just cause your last couple of relationships went wrong cause your partners were bi/lesbians doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. I think your insecure about yourself because otherwise you wouldn't be questioning yourself over "I'm too much of this, too little of that." Don't relate your current bad luck with women to stuff that's in the past, jtsu be confident and put yourself out there.
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