So, this is a fairly simple question to ask, but I expect the answer is more complicated than I hope for unfortunately. You see, I'm currently eighteen, a male, I'd consider myself Metro-sexual. I take care of my physical appearance, I exercise a lot, eat right, I've never done drugs/smoked and I don't even drink alcohol. I don't have anything against these things on a moral ground.
I don't understand why girls pass me up, or why I get stuck in the friend zone while they go out and find an absolute freaking jerk, and then complain to me about how horrible he is treating her; and yet she still remains with him. What the hell is with that? Perhaps I'm just too romantic, maybe girls associate this with being weak?
Eh, I think the biggest issue though, is I just can never seem to initiate any spark of attraction in a girl. I'm not really that shy, but I do consider myself a nice and polite guy. I try my best to respect everyone I meet. though I'm not a pushover either. I will stand up for myself and my girlfriend.
I don't consider myself ugly. I think I fall into the "cute" department. People say I look adorable, cute, cuddly, young. I guess girls want more of a rugged tough look? But could women really pass me up for this reason alone even after getting to know me? I do have some acne, it used to be pretty bad. It's improving, however. I have some scarring but not many pimples anymore. It still hurts my overall confidence the most.
I don't know. I mean, I can understand if they thought I was ugly. but meh. I really just don't seem to have a knack with girls. They are so confusing. They all say they want a nice guy who will treat them right. while they are dating jerks again and again and again. The double standard, have to love it. so, what do I do?
I suppose it does not help me much that I also happen to live in a French city. It makes approaching random girls out in public even harder as I'm not even sure if we have the same language in common.
Personally being a female my friends and I have the common idea that "Metro-sexual" guys are actually gay. As mean as that may sound and as untrue it is in your case it just comes to mind. Girls are use to guys who are a mess and need their help. Girlfriends always come along and start to make sure that their boyfriend is actually matching and took a shower. Since you are already trained and are amazing, that could just make some girls believe that you take too much time on yourself and are afraid to get messy.I wouldn't say that you are weak.
Honestly just be confident. When you see a girl that catches your eye, go up to her! Tell her that she caught your eye and be sincere about it while looking her straight in the eye and ask her for her number. We love when guys randomly come up to us and ask us for our number, it boosts our self esteem and we actually want to be around someone who does that.
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