He's been making lots of moves on me (long hugs, patting my butt, he even reached around and stroked my vagina, through my jeans while we hugged ect.) but I really don't know how to react to it. I mean I really like everything he does, I just don't know what to do when he does them? Should I acknowledge it, if so how? I'm really shy about sexual stuff, and I usually just act like nothing happened. What should I do to him? I don't want to be too out there with stuff that I do. Also, there is a small age difference, but he is over 18 and I am under 18.
If you give an inch, a guy will take a mile. Don't give that inch unless you're prepared to give a mile.
Also, I'm worried that this age gap is an indicator of his lack of interest in you emotionally, rather, interest in you sexually. How large is the age gap? Where did you meet? Etc.
21/2 years. we take classes together. He seems like a really sweet guy though, and I really like him a lot. - 4 months ago
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Alright. That age gap isn't so bad. Just remember to not do anything you aren't 100% ready for. If it looks to him like you want something, he's going to give it. Make sure he knows your boundaries. Also, make sure he doesn't use you.
Other than that, I really do hope this works out because love can occur between two people 2 1/2 years apart, easily. I just want you to be safe : ) - 4 months ago
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Thanks for the concern! =] Anyways do you have any not very advertly sexual to do to him to show I am interested? - 4 months ago
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I think if you just act yourself, it should be fine. As of now he hasn't been upset with however it is you're acting, so why change anything? He may know you're shy, so he understands. Just keep acting how you've normally been acting, or if you feel like acting differently, do that too, just do what you feel like doing.
If a problem arises where he has an issue with how you're acting or there's some confusion, then you might want to worry about changing how you act.
stop this! I mean he's not your BOYFRIEND or anything so like yeeahh tell him to stop but if you like him kiss him. he might as well do you some good! He's a bad boy!
It's a jungle out there, especially when it comes to the dating games these days. With almost everyone that is single (as well as some of those that aren't) looking for the right guy or gal, it's hard...
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