so basically I'm 19 and have never had a boyfriend and always wondered why? I felt in secondary school that I may have hung around with the wrong crowd of friends so it made me unnoticeable. Then I got to college and thought because of the college I was attending life would get better in that department however it just damaged everything it could possibly damage about ones self esteem. There was one boy that would constantly irritate me nearly everyday in order to get my attention. The people around me just constantly tried to tell me it was obvious he liked me but I wouldn't hear any of it cause I just thought he ws being a stupid boy. He would constantly shout my name out amongst other things to get my attention but I just disregarded it time and time again. I don't know if I had taken more notice of hm like he wanted me to if it could have developed further because I'm not being big headed but he seem to put a lot of time and and effort into getting my attention. I felt after this incident my confidence just felt to be knocked . Also because in college I found that girls use to hate on me quite abit because I would constantly find them talking about me and making snide remarks and guess people say you should let people hate on you but it knocked me back completely and almost made me dislike myself. I have had people tell me I'm pretty but I just can't believe and I feel possibly because of this I am given guys off a negative impression and it has made me emotionally detached. I have tried talking to frens bout it but I feel they are not interested because it doesn't effect them so I'm hoping to get some useful opinions on here.
Well I'm 14 and I can understand how the age can make a difference but I'm quite shy, I go to an all girls school and I don't think either of my best friends has ever had a boyfriend, though everyone I know including me is quite affectionate. I know a lot of cosplayers and they hug a lot and me? well I like to think I'd hug pretty much any of my friends or friends' friends. Then I got into going down to the park and discovered there was this guy they went down with. We got to talking and he might end up as my boyfriend. I never thought I'd be in this situation. I think it'll just happen. ^^ I wouldn't worry.
I am 22 and had my first boyfriend when I was 21. I remember feeling what you are feeling very well. Don't put yourself down. I would try your best to make the best of it by doing things you enjoy even if you have to do them by yourself. You may be surprised how much character it will build. It sounds like you might be a little shy too. It's difficult to do if you're shy and not used to the crowd, but let yourself loose and go dancing at a club or something!
Yea I'm not going to lie I am a bit shy but that's because of possible insecurities, like even though people tell me I am pretty I struggle to believe and maybe because off this I am giving off a vibe to guys like stay away from me or something of the sort. Also, what kind of things were you talking about that help build character? Also, I don't know if it's just me but I found boys these days tend to stare at you like their interested but are almost too scared to come up and talk to me. - 4 months ago
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