I have been working with a girl for about 6 months now and we have been really friendly with each other, sharing all our personal stuff and all that. We were both in a relationship when we first met bet I split up and started having feeling for her.
One day she told me she had enough of her man and had broken up with him, so on the day she was asking me if she should call up another guy she met and ask him out for drinks.
So I thought its now or never and asked her if we could go out.
She kinda freaked out and a few hours later told me no. Its been about a week now and everything between us is all awkward but I am still trying to be friendly while she hasn't really said a word.
All I want to do is be friends like how we used to be but it now feels like she is rejecting that too.
I have been in this girl's shoes before. There was a guy that I was really good friends with at one time. I looked at him like a brother, which is why I was very comfortable sharing personal problems and opinions with him. Over time, he tried kissing me a couple of times and admitted more than once that he was interested in more than friends. From those instances, I slowly avoided him a little more and more. I just felt very un-comfortable over time being around him, because I felt every time we hung out or talked I still had that vibe that he wanted more.
I think right now she still is in the shock mode and is trying to figure out how to handle the situation.if she is like me, she will probably continue to avoid you for good.but she can also be trying to still rationalize the situation. Maybe talk about other girls around her.maybe if she sees that you are dating another girl and talking about her all the time, she will get back to her comfort zone of talking and being friends with you. With the guy I was friends with.if he was seeing another girl or talking constantly to another girl, I would feel comfortable knowing that he has moved on. Thinking of it, she might also feel guilty or bad for rejecting you.I felt that way when I did it to him, which is partially y I also avoided him. Hope this helps
you could lie to her saying it was bad joke.it would take some time for her to really believe you.or you could just let her go, find another girl. if you were good friends she's gonna end up missing you and even getting jealous.
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