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Why Is He Acting Wierd?

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(Age:18 to 24) When: 4 months ago

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Me and my boyfriend have just got back together and he's acting a bit weird. We just got back together after 5 weeks apart and not really talking much and infact spent pretty much all this time with his friends. We met in person 2 times since. the first time he was resistent to anything I said. The second time. I'm not quite sure what happened or why but. he kissed me and apologized for everything and it was the most perfect passionate sweet make up ever! I haven't seen him since (2 days ago) but am seeing him tomorrow (he's spending lots of time with friends) and iv only talked with him on msn for a bit each day but he acts rally weird on msn. llike the first day he didn't really seem interested after a while and didn't talk much and the second day he was telling me all these stories and stuff about what he's done in my absence. and I think he's maybe feeling guilty about something he did (he is usually the NICEST SWEESTEST GUY EVER but I think he made new friends in my absence which were bad. and influenced him to start taking weed. (he normally wouldn't do anything like this he has good head on hus shoulders!) and although he has told me things that he thought he should tell me and that I might get upset about. and I'm glad he's been honest and he says there is something he needs to tell me tmorrow and I'm worrying about what it is becuz he is obviously feeling guilty about it but iuno I'm so confused. In person, when we are together, its AMAZING and he is the nice guy with a good head on his shoulders that I FELL IN LOVE WITH. but on msn he seems distant sometimes.
AND. he told me I couldn't go to his house because he jus told him mum what had happened and they weren't happy. but he doesn't want to tell everyone yet because he doesn't kno how to explain himself and everyone will think he's a wanker.
and he's been seeing his friends (certain ones MORE than me since we've been back - ones that he's spent like every day with since my absence) and like yesterday I asked him if we could see each other and he said he was busy and that at night he would be doing something for himself alone (playing guitar) but today told me he went to the pub which was a last minute decision becuz I was going to a party but I had told him I wanted to see him over going to the party and didn't in fact go. I think he just wants me to be more independent of him since we are going to uni really soon and I admit before we broke up I was a bit clingy and smothering and controlling but I'm trying my hardest not to be. but at the moment I'm finding it hard not to want to see him lots and ask him to see him (because he won't ask me) when I jsut want to spend time with him and get our relationship back on track., maybe this is why he's like doing all these bad things just because he feels he was free and didn't have to care what I thought? we were the most amazin thing for 2 YEARS before this and I just want us to be back to normal. why is he acting strange on msn is he just feeling guilty? or does he just need time to get back to how we were? I'm so confused

Update: we've decided to go on a break but be exclusive because he said HE wants to change. I didn't say he needed to but he says he doesn't think he has been treating me right and that he wants space to change so that he doesn't hurt me in the meantime. 4 months ago


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chinni (Age:25 to 29) When: 4 months ago

well bad company can make anything. try finding out what he is upto and tell him if he is wrong some where. and see if he comes back

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