My last relationship was so awful that I have stayed away from dating for nearly a year and a half. But my friend introduced me to someone who I hit it off with who had also been single for a long time because of a bad relationship too; we talked everyday for hours at work on msn, and in the evening on the phone for a month. One night he admitted to me that he liked me and wanted to take me out on a date. The next evening we went out for the first time- he told me I looked great, took me out for dinner, and dropped me home, walked me to the door, and we kissed under the moonlight for several minutes. Then the next day he started acting all awkward, which went on for a few more days. He kept telling me what a great time he had, and that he missed me but yet he was so distant; he ended up telling me something happened that was stressing him out but he didn't want to talk about it. A couple days later he apologized for acting all distant and ended up admitting to me that the reason he was acting that way was because something happened with this ex that made him really confused and stressed out. Then he begged me not to be upset with him and he said, "I want to make sure that we're just friends for now". I told him I was find with it, even though I know I'm not. He tells me he misses me and really wants me to be a part of his life. But, if he likes me so much, why is he letting the ex who broke his heart and hurt him so deeply, get in the way of him and I being together? Did he just lie because maybe he changed his mind about me, or is he telling the truth? Would he have held me and kissed me that night if he didn't have interest in pursuing me? Should I keep hoping we'll become more one day, or should I just move on? I'm so hurt and confused.
do you mind sharing what happened to his ex that made him really confused and stressed out?
don't be hurt.he already told you he missed you, and kissed you. assuming he's not a player, do give him more time and give yourself more time to know him. it takes a lot of time to get over an awful failed relationship, which I am sure you agree. some people take longer, depending on how bad the previous relationship was. perhaps he just didn't want to be hurt again and wanted to be really sure. think of it positively too. he could also care about your feelings and didn't want to hurt you in the future too if he wasn't sure of his feelings and still went headlong into the relationship.
Thank you so much for your response, it really helped me out! And he didn't specify what it was that happened with her that made him confused and stressed out; I'm assuming it has something to do with her wanting him back after how badly she hurt him. - 3 months ago
.im sorry but I think he is still in love with her, but I think he likes you a lot.but love is more strong than likes. .so , for now he really needs to get over her.sorry
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