K so here’s the deal, I am a junior in High School and I just moved to a different school. I was in line for getting pictures and these three girls came up to me, on the second day of school, and they were like, “hey you’re ------- right? The new girl?” And so I was like yeah and they were just asking me where I was from and all that “small talk.” So then they were like so are you wearing anyone’s jersey for Friday’s football game and I said, “no why?” and they were like well Jake thinks you’re really cute and stuff and he wants you to wear it.
So later I was asking some of my other friends who this Jake kid was and they said that girls basically line up to date him and he’s a total player. Alright, so I was telling myself that I would not get involved with that. So then I was walking down by my locker and a girl pointed him out for me from far away and he is really buff and he has a cute face, obviously one of the Football players. When I walked by him my friend was like, “umm Jake looked you up and down when you walked by.”
The next day when I was walking by him, and some of his other friends one of the girls was like “-------(me)! Here’s Jake I want you to meet him.” I kept walking and I was getting really nervous, so I didn’t say anything to him.
The next day (today) a guy named Mike came up to me during lunch and he said, “Hey you’re ------- the new girl from ------ right?” and I said “Yeah why do you ask?” And he goes, “Do you know Jake ---------?” I said “ I know who he is but I have never talked to him in my entire life.”
There are so many guys from that school that think I’m hott and stuff but I don’t want to date… but anyway my question is what is going on and why doesn’t Jake just come up and talk to me, and quit being a pansy? Yes girls go up to him all the time so he doesn’t really have to work, but I kinda want him to actually fall for me. I want to be different. Any advice?
Update: He has been telling everyone that we're dating and I still haven't talked to him. But everyone thinks we're together. What's going on?
2 months ago
So what am I supposed to do. I'm not going up to him because that's not my natural response, but once he comes up to me what am I supposed to do or say? - 2 months ago
Answerer
Just wait if he's really like you and he's not into any games and I adoubt that , try to give him rebound don't show to him that you're interested in him ,
if he want to talk to you he should come to you in person ,like you said he's a player so maybe you're just a new toy to play with for a while , try to find some guy who likes you and not into any games ,
I'm not interested in dating him. I would become friends with him but I want him to at least show that he can fight for a girl instead of them fighting for him. - 2 months ago
Answerer
You're right in this , so let him do the work instead of other doit for him , - 2 months ago
Question Asker
But I'm wondering what he'll do since he's so cocky and stuff, I'm pretty sure he won't move on until I'm "hooked" - 2 months ago
Answerer
If he's cocky , trust me you don't want to be with him , because his ego gonna be hard to deal with , try to find a guy whos humble not a guy who thinks he's better than everyone else .. - 2 months ago
SInce you are new you may not be seeing the big picture and just a small bit of it. I know you want him to fall for you but don't get your hopes up. Your other friends know what type of guy he is. Most players never change until college. Don't waste your time wanting him. Move on the other guys if you like him. But on the other hand if he makes an effort to talk to you be friends with him for a good period of time. Get to know him before you do anything quickly. Hope this helped.
I'm not interested in dating him. I would become friends with him but I want him to at least show that he can fight for a girl instead of them fighting for him. - 2 months ago
Well I don't really think he'll fall for you if you ignore him when someone tries to introduce you to him, will he? lol. It sounds like you're pretty much just in it for the chase. John Tucker Must Die much? hahahah jk. Well if you want him to "fall for you" you have to get to know him first so you can see what he likes/doesn't like in girls. But if he's a total player is it really worth it?
Exactly he is a player! His friends come up and talk to me...he doesn't. So if I look like a super cool person to hang around and whatever then he'll really want to come up and talk to me. Also, if he thinks he's a player and is extremely cocky, he EXPECTS me to fall for him, not the other way around. Get what I'm saying? - 2 months ago
Answerer
Yes I understand but what would you do when he falls for you? Date the cocky egotistic guy...? Or move on and check it off your list? I mean it just seems very troublesome I keep thinking of John Tucker must die lol - 2 months ago
Question Asker
No I don't want to date him I want to show him more than just jumping into a relationship, like being his friend he has never tried that before. - 2 months ago
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