Last christmas I met a guy, "O" at a party through friends. We all went out at new year. That night my friend notices his flirty behaviour towards me. I go off to Uni but return home in about mid Feb. I facebook him later feb/march time, I ask him out for coffee. 1st time: He can't do it. Seems genuine. 2nd time: He forgets, 3rd time: there's no reply.
Then there was a chance meeting a couple of weeks ago. We arrange to hang out. That weekend I am out with a female friend, L. We see him and his brother and sister, we all get a drink together. He gets flirty with both myself and my friend. I lighthearted peck on the cheek after a dance and he moves away YET tries to grind with myself and my friend later. Next week, the group of us are all out together. When they first arrive he goes to grab me from behind and kisses my cheek then quickly lets go. We all sit and my girl friend gets very awkward and rude. She starts tmaking sarcastic jibes about both of the boys dress/mannerisms/conversation etc. to the point that it is actually rude and embarrassing . Go to a local pool hall and she asks for some money for a bus home as we get in saying that she might be off sooner than she'd expected. Upstairs, we're all playing pool : 1st me + O: friendly, fun a bit flirty. Later we're all dancing at first all together as a 4, after a couple of drinks he's with her more. before she can get too drunk I ask his brother to tell him that I like him and I take her aside to tell her. She later ignores this and kisses him anyway. He doesn't believe his brother but in the club comes over to me and puts his arms around me/starts dancing with me. Later that night, he apologises saying he feels eclipsed by his brother (who's better looking/a grade student etc.) and doesn't feel right within himself. He asks me to come back to UK (we all live abroad) and invites me to a party then Says "lets see how things are when I come back at xmas" Once I agree to come to the party he laughs and says "now I have a date" . Monday night, I ask him for drink via MSN and he seems really chatty and enthusiastic about hanging out. He says he will call but doesn't. Tuesday: We have coffee. We're both relaxed and have lots in common. He asks why we haven't been hanging out for the past three months and I remind him it was because he never replied. He admits that it was his fault and that we need to stay in touch. When we were talking he explained that he'd been hurt in the past and found it hard to open up emotionally, that he liked having good friends instead of getting tons of girls. What do you all think? He's very shy and puts himself down alot. How does he feel about me? Friends, potential or something more? Could it be that he's just scared of getting hurt?
i think you should not call him as a flirt because sometimes it happens that when a person tries to be humble and polite other people feel as if the other person is a flirt. and many people have this problem of showing attitude.may be he wants others to pay more attention towards him.so that's not such a big problem just go ahead, meet him personally and ask him clearly. wat's there in your heart and mind.and that's it.
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