its purely dependent on how well I know you- guy or girl, its the same. if you are a hi-bye friend. you get the short, squeeze. if you are my great pal- long, tight hugs that has to be repeated again!
I'm Latina, and we are big fans of physical contact, so whenever I see a friend, I give them a big bear hug and a smile - I'd avoid that if I liked a guy :-)
i usually hug lightly and kind of make space between us if it's just a friendly thing. but with the guy I like I get up on my tip toes (he's tall) and get as close as I can! hee hee!
I am kind of shy with guys sometimes so I don't usually hug but I wouldn't hug tightly unless the guy hugged tighty first. And I think it depends on the girl.
I'm not much of a hugger. When the guy I like hugs me though, I tend to linger and lean in more than with someone who I see as just a friend. I will also wait for him to release from the hug before I do the same.
If I liked a guy, I would definitely give him a longer or tighter hug. But I would do that with guys I feel totally comfortable with too. And I mean comfortable as in they act like my big brothers and I love them in a friend kind of way.
um actually it depends on the girl. If she's shy then it would probably be a limp hug and then a little blush if she likes you. but if she's raelly outgoing then ya she'd probably run up and hug you raelly tight and really long. And then laugh er something. so ya, it depends.
So how do you go in for a hug say high or what cause I don't do this but my friends do and I get the feeling that this is some unfathomed level of friendship I need to get to - 3 months ago
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