I get so jealous?

to deny your feelings and try to hide, or translate them, is to wreck yourself. and using the trasitive property, you will ultimately wreck the relationship and then wreck the guy.

you've heard it all of your life, the cornerstone of a good relationship is communication. whether it be physical or audible.

communication can be anything from "hey, you have bad breath right now", all of the way to "hey, I get jealous when you talk to other girls"

you have to be honest with him, I'm sure that once you communicate that to him, you'll feel different about him talking with other girls, and he'll feel different as he acknoledges your feelings on the subject.

You can't possible want to just "come off as a better person" for the rest of your life. hey, people have flaws, and feelings, and wants, and needs. communicate them.

its human nature but you can try to be more relax with it , because if he's into you nothing gonna change that , try to have more self confident , if a guy/girl want to cheat on their partner nothing can stop them , be sure about that .

I totally understand, I can be the same way sometimes.

But I think about the fact that I also have guy friends and I know when I talk to them he shows his jealousy too so I tend to include him in on the convo and make sure I compliment him during our convo so he knows he's superior to my other guy friends.

Think of it this way, he "comes home to you" in a matter of speaking. He may talk to them because they talked to him but would otherwise pass them by. I know with the guy I like, if another girl is talking to him (he's generally never the one approaching them) and I pass by he usually will stop and say "Hi, (my name)" wait for me to respond and watch me walk away, basically leaving the other girl standing there looking stupid. ha ha! Try it! It cracks me up every time!

Besides he's just talking to them not anything else right? There's nothing to worry about.your the one that gets to kiss his lips and hang on his arm! They can only say they had a conversation.

Confidence girl, confidence!

I've had this issue before and the only thing that helped was talking to the guy I was dating. I literally told him, "It makes me jealous when you talk to other girls, and I don't know why." It took a lot out of me to tell him that, especially because I'm the type of person that likes to keep my pride and I hate admitting to things. It really helps to talk to your significant other about it. Don't accuse him of anything, just be honest with him and you might be surprised to see the answer. He'll probably remind you that he loves you and that if he wanted to be with anybody else he wouldn't be in a relationship. I'm sure that you are the only one in his heart.