Cuddling

I love to cuddle most of the time I'd actually rather cuddle than do anything else, to me there's just no better feeling than falling asleep with a girl in your arms.

If it's like a one night stand, for sure, why snuggle? But yeah if I'm in a relationship or am into getting into a relationship past just sex or a hook up then snuggling is a way to show you really care about that person. It takes the sex to another level.

I am a girl and I am definitely on the same page with you here. for some reason the idea of being all over each other after having sex does not appeal to me either. I am really touchy person in general - always giving hi & bye hugs to friends, linking arms, rubbing backs, etc. - but after sex I honestly just am fine with being on my side of the bed and letting him be on his. I don't know whether it is because my exboyfriend (the only real serious, long term relationship i've had) was not into cuddling so maybe I just trained myself to not be into it either or maybe because the people I have sex with aren't always guys that I necessarily have feelings for so the thought of cuddling doesn't really appeal to the sitaution. but even lately now that I am pretty crazy about one guy I just am not overly antsy about trying to get him to cuddle with me. I love leading into the sex, and then the sex is great, and afterwards i'm not offended at all when we get up and get dressed and sit on separate couches. I more so wonder what the guy thinks about this than anything ! haha