This guy I'm trying to date talks to me a lot about sports, movies (especially action & comedy), stories where someone he knew got into an altercation and had all these broken bones/injuries, and things like that.
Granted he'll talk to me about other things like stuff going on in my life or things in his life.or he'll ask about my family. He's playfu and touchie feelie.
But when he starts talking about male subject matter or cracking his knuckles in front of me I start to worry because I don't want him to see me as one of the guys.
either he does or lol he just doent know how else to carry on a covo wit you.yet he wants to so much that hell pull from anything.dont be so scarrred of bein viewd as one of the guys tho.as long as he's not doin very rude and weird stuff (stuff us guys do together) with you then no worries.if anything your in a great position because guys love a girl that they can be real and relaxed wit and that they feel they can tel some stuff that otherwise we would only tell to our guy friends.and that would make you not one of the guys but a very cool girl
Yeah I see but at the same time I don't want to end up in the dreaded FRIEND ZONE. Like I said the most "manly" thing he's done is crack his knuckles in front of me and sure he's playful and touchie feelie but then he keeps talking to me about guy things or someone he knows or something he saw on tv...and its like UM IM A GIRL - 4 months ago
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You ever joked wit him about you bein a girl? - 4 months ago
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I think once or twice lol... - 4 months ago
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And I understand what you mean by the friend zone.......him crackin his knuckles infront of you idont really get......why not try and find somethin that you can lead the convo in? like when he talks about sports ask him which is his favorite....ask him about his goals in life....a question I love to ask to instigate an actual convo is "If you could only have one thing,person,or feelin outta life..Wat would it be and Why?" some answers are really revealin - 4 months ago
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And maybe bring up the fact that yuor a girl a little more often like somteimes when he's touchy feely as you say mess wit him tellin him your a girl he can't do that or somethin like dat....ill tell you tho that iv got a friend that I viewd as 100 percent onf of the guys but hangin wit her more and more and seein her personailty is makin me like her more and more - 4 months ago
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He could be entirely comfortable around me not in a "Just one of the guys" sort of way, but more because he knows I won't judge him for it. I do know a lot about him and vice versa because we do talk alot...not just about sports and man stuff only...but its like......flirt more than talk to me about sports.........I'm a girl. Ask me out sometime if your going to flirt or tickle or share stories about things that interest you. But he doesn't always :| - 4 months ago
I think it's a good sign that he ask about your family. It means he wants to get to know you better. It's when a guy starts talking to you about his girl problems or who he finds attractive that he thinks of you as 'one of the guys'. Just cause he thinks it's never going to happen and are officially in the platonic zone.
What could these male subject matters be? Some guys can be very open about a lot of things. Many guys aren't ashamed to say what they think. I think he feels comfortable to talk to you about certain things and if he is touchy feelie, then I think it is a definite good sign. Most platonic guy friends I have, I don't tend to be touchy feelie with.the farthest it will go will be a hug or a hit on the shoulder.
So, definitely start flirting with him and I think you will get a good reciprocation back with some touchy feeliness. =P
Thats the way a lot of guys are now....they will flirt and play with you hopin that you on seein his interest will make the first move....i know its dumb but comein from a guys view (we believe if a girl wants us enough then shell make a move) I mean some of us are scarred of rejection to ya know? - 3 months ago
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Girls are still old fashion and are waiting for guys to make the first move. Girls tend to be more touchy feelie and boost ur ego in hopes of the guy will ask the girl out. The reason being is because girls like guys with enough courage and balls to take initiative. It makes them more manly and attractive and that if we did reject u, you are manly enough to take it and move on to the next girl. But this is me being harsh and straight to the point about it. =/ - 3 months ago
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